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TOPIC: over coming shyness
Created by: scarolinacouple96
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hi i'm 38 yo male we have been in the ls for about 3 years and i still get nervous and shy around the other women and groups because i cant tell when someone is interested in me, so would any ladies explain what to look for when a women is interested or not this would really help me out thanks ,c

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I can sort of help with the answer....I am a female, well that last time i checked I was! :0) Anyway....Eye contact, is a good thing. As for me, I am shy in the beginning also for the same reasons. But if I am into you, you will know it. Eye contact, conversation, laughter, and I am a touchy person....If I don't get the same response relatively soon from the male, then I move on...... Hope this helps...

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I'm not a lady so take my advice with a grain of salt. For me, the easiest way to overcome my nervousness is to consider the first conversation as completely and totally platonic. Find mutual interests outside of the bedroom and talk about those. Make eye contact, if you can, and generally treat any/all your partners as if they are the only person in the room until you're both comfortable enough to move on to less platonic activities or more interesting partners.

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hi i'm 38 yo male we have been in the ls for about 3 years and i still get nervous and shy around the other women and groups because i cant tell when someone is interested in me, so would any ladies explain what to look for when a women is interested or not this would really help me out thanks ,c

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TOPIC: over coming shyness