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LOL, yes its normal. I actually rescheduled our first meeting because I got so scared and nervous!! So yes, its always terrifying the first time you do anything, and this is no different. Shelly

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we were very nervous on our first private meet- and have been each time since. i like the how you put it-dating as a team. it's cool being at a club and checking out couples. our tastes are not constant so we are often surprised at who the other will find attractive.

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I would also suggest going to one of the clubs listed inthe "events" on here...that way you can go at your own pace, and "get your feet wet" a bit first. It did wonders for my own confidence, and we met some great people there whom we later had here for dinner and sex. :)

I tend to get more butterflies than my husband does, but he has to listen to all my concerns, poor guy! I really need to just get them out here, or with a friend before we meet a couple(s) so that I don't project all my nerves onto him! Yikes.

Good luck, have fun, relax, enjoy!

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Meet and have a drink, talk, have a disclaimer that says " no expectations, never play on the first date". Always have alternative plans and an easy escape route...A code word for "lets get out of here, NOW" helps too...Good luck!

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Welcome to the forums! Be careful, be patient, and good luck :) Mrs.

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Being nervous is absolutely natural....I have actually read people say that when you stop having those butterflies its time to find a new hobby lol...but yes, they are very natural. And best understand that the other couple is probably feeling the same thing about you. Shelly

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the huge butterflies are part of the fun :-)

as long as u go in with a good attitude and no expectations u will be fine.

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