Here's the shorter Haiku version:

Do not fuck workmates.
It will cause major issues.
Don’t shit where you eat.

;-)

Or Fun, if you cease to be fun. Present company excepted.

You shouldn't create a profile name using a term like newby either. After awhile it just doesn't fit.

Now THAT, I agree with. Thanks SLO.

I'll just keep it short and sweet.
Run very fast on your tiny little feet!
It might sound like it's fun and and neat,
But it's not very smart to shit where you eat.

Our own experience with going to bed with a coworker was things got really weird and uncomfortable until one of us found employment elsewhere. We will never take a trip down that road again.

I must agree with "don't dip you pen in company ink." Of course it could possibly work (very unlikely) to go there, but is it really worth it? Just my 2 cents

I largely agree with Fun... though exceptions can be found. Still, if anything at all goes South in the swinging experience, it'll get "weird".

But if you're full steam ahead, I'd say I would send an email via SLS first. That gives them the ability to maintain the distance and kind of keep it discreet. But that's just my two cents.

Newbys, welcome to the forums. Hope you enjoy yourself here. Look around in the other sections, and make yourself at home. Lots of good info.

As for your question, I personally think it's a bad idea to have any kind of intimate relationship with a co-worker. And I choose not to mix vanilla friends with swinging friends. The co-worker thing is just fraught with peril.

I don't know how else to ask this question, so i'll just ask it. Here goes....I work with another swinger who is on this site. I am interested in the other, but how do you go about this? I am not one to tell anyone my business, or anyone else's (if they want to tell their business they can..my motto). If I am interested in the other...do i say something or just hold it in?