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Just the intro emails. He's got good taste and a great sense of smell. He's never allowed in the bedroom.

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Really BT? Your dog did your homework?

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I came home this morning after a particularly pleasant evening to find my iPad in a different location than where I'd left it plugged in and charging. There were also black dog hairs all over the place. I didn't need to be Columbo to figure out that my dog's been on my SLS profile sending emails again.

My apologies to the good looking couple, here in NOLA, for the late night note. It was my dog. I have to admit though, the fucker's got great taste and by the look of the email, game too. Feel free to respond if the mood strikes.

BT

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I have my black lab type out all of my intro emails. He's the good looking one in "our" profile photo. If SFs and couples don't like dogs, then I don't wanna meet them. It's that simple.

So, if anyone is wondering about all the typos in my intro emails, now you know.

Here for fun,

BT

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I initiate contact with women and couples and understand that no response means not interested. If single males knew that then maybe I wouldn't be lumped in with the bad ones. Not all single males are idiots. If you don't like single males you can block us.

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I can tell you what is a huge turn off for me. I was bored and contemplated going out with someone (sm) who initiated the invite. I told him a few conditions and he agreed or so I thought. However, the deal breaker was when he said he would like to be sucking or licking I can't remember which on my tits that night....shut him down....no thanks.

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I have been writing for all my professional life and dislike reading with errors, but I don't see a problem with what I have read in LS places like this.

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Mr Nice,

Thank you the compliment although I think you overstate my writing abilities. I'm just a dumb blonde with BIG opinions who is never afraid to "call em as I see em" . :) Mrs Sav

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oh Mrs. Sav to be able to form my thoughts and post as eloquentley as you would be a dream. I agree with everything you said and you were spot on. In the past couple of months we have had the same 3 SM email us with love your profile or see you are going to the club lets meet. Usually I ignore them but last week i sent them all a reply back of "no thanks". Damn if all 3 havent emailed back pleading there cases. Fuckem blocked them all. We are single male friendly (or were rather) but about ready to block them all. If it werent for a couple of good ones we do mail regularly and the fact Mrs. Naughty still likes to peruse i would. Anyway i have found that 99% of SM are the same. Excuse my rant Mr. Nice

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"By doing that, it tells the sender you're not interested, and the sender can take you off his list of possible contacts. That helps you, because - if the sender is respectful of you - you won't get repeated emails from them trying to hook up with you. "

One would think common sense would tell you that if someone chose to not respond for whatever reason the "sender" should take you off their list of possible contacts. As mentioned, I didn't say it was "polite" to ignore you. I said it was a fact it happens and will continue to happen ....welcome to the real world. To you it all sounds so simple, click a button and it is over , I beg to differ there myself. At least half of the single men we send a polite "no thank you" to seem inclined to send yet another email either berating us for rejecting them, trying to convince us to change our minds or the ever hopeful "if you change your mind but thanks for responding" bullshit. Many of them will write again in a few months, having forgotten (or hoping we forgot) they've already been turned down. Ah yes there is a block button for pesky buggers and we have been forced to use it but the simple fact is" NO RESPONSE" means NO INTEREST . Like it or not it is a reality. Tell me do you respond to EVERY email you get in the real world? Do you write to the siding and window guy and politely thank him for contacting you but that you have no interest? How about all those credit card offers? Travel deals? Money Investments? Do you simply ignore them? Toss them in your junk folder? I ask because generally speaking the majority of "single" men here aren't much different, they mass email every couple and single female within a 800 mile radius , they have no "interest" in a particular female or couple , they are interested in ANYONE they can hook up with. Ask any single female here how many emails they get per day from both singles and couples and you might grasp why at some point someone would simply chose to ignore it. Ask any couple the context of the emails they get from single men and maybe you can understand WHY sometimes they chose to ignore someone.There are "polite" men who take the time to read the profile and offer up an intelligent email and might deserve a response but what one thinks they deserve and what they generally get are not the same things and whining about it does you far more harm than good.

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