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User Details are only visible to members.	Awww, one of my favorate topics and also pet peeves. I despise a one line email with an "expection" that I will just run to them to fuck them. To get in my pants, you first have to go thru my mind. A short into with a comment about my profile is a good start. Please be aware that an email is not a text message. If you are out of the range of my preferrences on my profile, you should at least acknowledge that and give me a good reason to consider you anyway. Now here's the fun part. Grammar!! Your grammar tells me what kind of person you are and if you are intelligent, or just stupid. Watch your spelling and punctiation. Don't shorten the words like you are texting. Know who you are addressing. I am a 40+ year old woman, not a 18 year old girl. Never come across as "expecting" me to want a date with you on your first email. That will get you dismissed. Now about photos. If you contact me, open your galleries. Don't just send cock shots. I know all males have cocks. If that's all you have in your photos, then that tells me that you are nothing but a dick. Who wants to be with one of those? Please have something beside that shot of you in the mirrow. At least have a couple of pictures of you smiling. Lastly, if the woman is married (even with a single profile like mine) keep that in mind and avoid trying to be romantic. This site is not eharmony.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I dont recommend initiating emails. If the couple wants you, they will find you.
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User Details are only visible to members.	You want to know a big secret when it comes to emails from a single addressing a couple? Aknowledge both in your email and try to establish a friendship with both. Remember with out the hubby in agreement you are probably fucked right off the bat if you ignore the fact she is married and just talk shit to her alone. We have a SM we play with who i liked right away just from his first email. He is the only SM we have ever played with that we met here on SLS. There was one guy the wife was talking to for over a week. He was flirting and trying to hook up with her the usual stuff. I have no problem with that. I read his emails after a couple of days go by and he never says one word inquiring about her SO. Well that got shot down quick. Where as with our other SM if were to ask to take MRS. Naughty out to dinner and dancing i would trust him no problem. Why? because from the beggining he established a relationship with both of us which in turn forms trust after awhile.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Luvs, Read down a little further and you'll see another string about intro letters. I'll apologize in advance for the typo I just saw in my post there. Guess I failed to use spell check. Good luck.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (4162 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sure many of the women and couples here get bombarded with e-mail (particularly from guys). I'm part of a FWB cpl on AFF with a very cute F1/2 so I'm not unfamiliar with endless one or two (grammatically incorrect and sometimes unintelligible) e-mails that essentially lack any creativity, thought or effort. Pretty impolite and disrespectful too if you think about it: you're trying to get in a woman's panties and you can't give her the benefit some effort and appreciation. Anyway, other than even a basic command of the English language and proper use of punctuation, which are the e-mails that tend to grab you and get you interested? Medium length with at least a line or two about the writer personally? Short but confident w/out being arrogant or cocky? Some comment or other indicia that the writer bothered to read your profile? Can any of you ladies gimme a bit of advice and understanding?
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