We are so new where to start: Swingers Discussion 2081331011

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User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the world of swinging and the forums pkrplryraa :) You asked alot of questions and there is alot of great information in the forum, keep reading. Generally speaking, I think the best way to approach any date is to plan on having fun with each other!! If you meet up with people you want to play with that's a bonus. Sometimes it's not as easy said as done, so go to enjoy your sexy selves. There's lots of threads on how to approach people, I say smile, be friendly, and be sure to be approachable too. I've found that everyone finds their way little by little. If something doesn't work, try something different the next time. Plus different people respond to different things, so sometimes it's always a new lesson. I guess there are etiquettes about things, but mostly be sure you are comfortable saying NO when you want to and need to! Don't ever do anything you don't want to do. That goes for you and your husband as well. Both of you need to be on board with each other with everything! Which brings me to boundaries. Do you know what your boundaries are??? Your profile is so very vague, so I don't know one of them. You can't make them clear unless you know them. Granted, you can't think of everything at once, but constant communication is needed now and as you move forward. And in my opinion, writing them in your profile can help you organize them so to speak. It could also get you noticed in sls. Many people pass over vague profiles. If you need help with that I suggest you writing a thread in Better Profiles. What does this mean? "He is receptive to this but more for himself. He's not sure he would be ok when the tables are turned. Which is ok for now because we haven't tried anything yet, lol. " --- ~He's okay with him being with a female, but not sure about you being with a male? I'm assuming it is. If that is what it is, okay, say it. 'FMF' only now. That would be a boundary and anywhere you go, that's what you will say. (and good luck finding a SF! ;) I do think people change their desires alot and pretty fast around here, so he may change his mind about that in time. And i hope he does. Some (okay many, lol) here will say that would be unfair to you and not what this lifestyle is about. I'm going to say, perhaps he just needs a little time as my husband did. It's about 'wanting' each other to be happy and having fun. It's about 'feeling happy' seeing the other person have fun. And much more.... Most of all, you need to find what works for both of you, and when you know it, you will simply say it, no matter where you are. I cannot stress to you more how much you both need to openly TALK and then TALK MORE! And never forget No means No. oh.... In a club, always ask if it is okay to touch someone before you do.
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