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TOPIC: To_approach_or_not_to_approach
Created by: Lloydalli
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When you are at a swinging event, when do you know if you should introduce yourself? Do you wait for the more "seasoned" couple to approach you? How can you tell if they are interested?

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Personally, I/we find utilizing the dance floor the easiest way to mingle and flirt. A lot of fun comes out of it!!! LMAO even at vanilla establishments.

Franklinville NJ
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We tend to wait to be approached, but we'd like to be a little more assertive. So Kudos to the Alpha couples that are polite and direct in introductions.

Oklahoma City OK
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Lloyd and Alli,

I think people fret too much about whether there are special protocols in a swinger setting. Why not just take the same social skills you've developed over the years, and apply them at swinger events? Don't overthink. Do what comes naturally.

Good luck to you, and welcome to the forums.

New Orleans LA
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OH, and PLEASE unlock those pics, dayum those things deserve to be ogled!

Augusta GA
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My thoughts are that if you are interested unless they are directly engaged and obviously to busy to be bothered, then by all means approach them. Worse case scenario, they will tell you they are not interested or are busy and really who the hell cares, lots of fish in the sea. You will never meet anyone waiting for someone. You are the hottest thing in the room, so no need to fear rejection, and at the risk of sounding like Racer, if there is no risk, there is no reward. No need to be rude or pushy, but it is a swing party, people came there to meet other people EXACTLY like you! So go up and say Hi, introduce yourself!

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When you are at a swinging event, when do you know if you should introduce yourself? Do you wait for the more "seasoned" couple to approach you? How can you tell if they are interested?

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