Fickle

personally, I would not think twice about sharing a bed with you, I think you look amazing, you have all the right curves in all the right places :)

What's really tough is having one partner who is selective/picky, and the other an orgasm doning equal opportunist!

First, to the OP, we think you're incredibly hot and only wish you lived closer to us! As for us, neither of us is Ken or Barbie, but we'd like to think we're attractive for our ages. However, we continue to be surprised that people reject others soley on the basis of looks. Yes, mutual attraction is an important thing, but we've actually found some of the nicest/hottest people we've met on SLS were ones we weren't originally attracted to their photos. On the flip side, there have been couples we were initially attracted to physically that turned out to be jerks (and a lot of that had to do with the fact that they only cared about how in-shape you were!). So our advice is to be open-minded with people...you never know how many "great" ones you may be letting slip past!

I would say we all have preferences and what people consider HWP is all over the board, but great pics and I think being open and upfront with your weight is the best way to be. Good luck

Thank you for the compliment, I sincerely appreciate it but Trust me I understand completely how you might feel, we too get emails from couples so dang hot I'm scared to reply lol. Especially if they're younger , fitter and make statements reguarding how fit and trim they are. At almost 50 I have a "womens' body with curves...I am by no means one of those "lean" girls who you can bounce a quarter off of their tummies. At my age I've had and raised 4 kids and although I try to take care of myself I can't compete with a someone who works out daily and frankly don't want to. Relax , be proud of who you are and know that you have many wonderful qualities that other people will thrill in .....including your womanly figure. Mrs sav

I wouldn't give it a second thought if they're contacting you . You listed yourself as 5'7 and 180 and have posted pictures. To ease your own mind you could put a photo of you fully clothed from top to bottom , block the face out and leave it at that....for your comfort Not theirs. Frankly I think you look lovely. Trust me most of us use our most flattering photos , for the 1000's we take a handful are chosen.
Good luckk to you both ,
Mrs Sav