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TOPIC: Requesting proof photos of questionable members
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For the record, pics shared on the site are no more secure than pics shared via email. You do have the benefit of staying one level "more anonymous" if you choose to be but saving pictures from here is trivially easy if you want to do so.

Make no mistake, this site's pics are no more secure than facebook, if someone has been given access to them.

If you're concerned about someone using your pics elsewhere the only option is not to give them access. But, if you're concerned about that, you're talking to the wrong person anyway.

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I'm a legit single female and had a free account for quite sometime so the only way I could see pics where if they were emailed. I didn't ask for explicit pics at all just a face shot you may post on Facebook. I would not have been snapping pictures of myself with a dated piece of paper. I have had people ask me to take a pic of myself ritht this instant and send it to them. Of course that always seems to happen when my hair is in a pony tail and my makeup isn't done or has melted off. I understand why you'd ask but I would just go on my way. Pics shared on the site are only slightly more secure than those sent by email a tip from a computer geek.

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We don't jump through any of hoops to prove we're real. We go to most of the local parties and know many of the serious lifestylers in our area. Unless you have some certs from people we trust, the odds of us meeting up with you are pretty slim. We call BS on anyone that wants to trade pics or chat off sls.

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I agree with bkr. We haven't had to request verifying photos (yet) since our contacts were all real, but I think most people here are aware of the problems presented by fake profiles. If you explain why you are requesting the kind of pose you mentioned, they shouldn't object. If they do object or don't reply, you have a definite answer. Good luck!

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Was it weird to ask? No way. I've asked and been asked for "authentication" several times and it just seems logical to me. Anyone on the up and up won't have a problem with it. If they do, they aren't worth your time.

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I think when you have concerns such as these no it isnt at all. !! I would not be upset, I may think your a little on the paranoid side, but better safe than in the backyard of a serial killer..

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We are pretty sure it is a bogus account too, but my question was - is it weird to ask someone to send a picture of themselves holding something (like a piece of paper with the date on it) so that we know they aren't using stolen pics?

Doesn't have to be a photo which includes their face, just something to match up against their default profile picture...

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a single male.. pic collector.. creepy man just creepy..

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Sound like a guy collecting pix

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In general, we don't ever share explicit, or even sexy pics outside of SLS unless we've actually met someone first. The most we share is regular party pics and face pics, but even then we're a little wary.

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