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TOPIC: Phoning before meeting
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We like to talk on the phone before we meet. You can tell a lot from people by the way they talk. My man gives his cell phone number so he is the only one who answers the phone. That way we don't have to worry about me being pestered by a horny guy who pretends he's part of a couple! We found this works well for us.

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I haven't done this myself, but I've read somewhere in the Forums that you can set up a new number through google and link it to your cell phone. If things don't work out, you cancel the new number and you're done.

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Maybe buy a cheapo phone with a cheapo pay as you go for playing. This way if you accumulate to many weirdos you don't have to change your personal cell phone.

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To each their own I guess, but I would never give out my number to someone I haven't already met. Of course that works because around here there are lots of clubs, meet and greets, other events so in the event you get stood up there are plenty of other people to see/do.

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We voice verify with couples we haven't met when setting up a first meeting. We state this in our profile. We've never been stood up. It eliminates the fakes & flakes right away. Some "Couples" we've exchanged a few e-mails and opened pics with suddenly stop contact when we bring up the phone call. Most likely a single guy playing games posing as a couple or married guy who's wife doesn't know what he's doing or isn't willing to try the lifestyle, or she no longer wants to swing & he does.

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From what we have seen in the past two weeks, is there are a lot of fake, flake and shy single guys that back out on the very last minute. Right up to the point of meeting. I would be more surprised if your potential playmate showed up then did not. I think many of them are just jerk offs.

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we have it right in our profile that we will be having phone conversations before a meet is scheduled. We have very limited time to play and lots of couples interested so we want to be sure that we have some pre-chemistry dialogue. We spent a lot of $ on dinners and drinks before we decided this and it has really made the 1st meeting go a lot smoother :D

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We have never seen the need to voice verify before meeting but we also live within walking distance of dozens of bars and restaurants, so if we were to have a no show it wouldn't be the end of the world. If we were going to drive any significant distance to meet someone it would probably be a different story. We do give out our google voice number so they can text us if they're running late or the babysitter didn't show.

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I have no problem giving out my phone number but I dont like for that to be the first thing ever asked for (meaning prior to any other chat) so that is the only time that I refrain from giving. Otherwise, I agree that it is helpful to have. One time, I had my phone stolen but had a meet scheduled. That was the biggest disaster when I ran into traffic and got there late.

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I believe that asking for a telephone chat is very sensible - bu either the couple or the SM. I can't think of anything bad as a result of a voice interaction. Only good things like flushing out the fakes...

.... a call out to all SMs; there is a lot of SMs that are very cool...

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