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This has happened to us. I personally feel that if we certify someone who has no intention of certifying us, they should decline our certification. It's only polite.

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Here's our take on certs:

We've only certified those whom we've had sex with, except for one couple who were guests at our house party and we played a little with them, but not as much as usual for a certification. But they were/are real and also "real nice!"

If we did have sex with someone and did not certify them, it meant that we are not interested in being with that couple again for whatever reason and don't want to compliment them.

If we know the couple and do not certify them, it means we are waiting for something more to happen between us...

If someone had sex with us, repeatedly, and they do not certify us, we can only suppose the reason may either be that they don't certify anyone, they're really "not that into us," or other reasons which are their own entirely. We don't question it or fret about it. Some people don't like to, some do.

Some people also don't like certifications on their profiles because it tends to limit them in some areas. We always check out a new couple's certs to see if we're similar to their other couples of preference and to find out what kind of people they've played with.

i know this is a long post. Certs can be limiting, can be the equivalent of "writing in someone's high school yearbook." Can't let it bother you.

Gina

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""You know lots of "curious" guys list themsleves as straight."

Or they hang out in the bi forums. "

LMFAO

I had to stop reading when i read that but...some people "I" think believe that if you were certed by someone you slept with them or intend on continuing things with them. Who really knows...I'd just send them a mail and ask :o)

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"You know lots of "curious" guys list themsleves as straight."

Or they hang out in the bi forums.

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u don't mean that if u have a bi or bi curious guy "linked" to you via cert that's means u are curious as well do u?

Philadelphia PA
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Here's a new one. We met a couple for a drink. Drinks were nice, but we weren't a good match for anything more. But, here's the thing....

We went back and certified them. They were real and nice (we just didn't hit it off) and we figured that was the right thing to do....they are certified real people that didn't flake out :). But, they won't certify us back. Given we are newer on this site, we'd like people to know that we are also a real couple.

Oh well. Does that happen to others out there?

El Paso TX
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