Our first contact pet peeve: Swingers Discussion 1595221016

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User Details are only visible to members.	Hi J_and_M! I get what you're saying. I really do, but I also get that so many people don't respond to a nice email that was obviously sent to them (as in, not a generic cut and paste deal) that often times we'll send a quick email, open some pics and ask that we hear back if the couple is interested. We think that our profile sums us up, but leaves enough to the imagination that we'll have plenty to talk about and we're more than willing to get into more detail via email b/f making plans to be sure that we'll be compatible. We also often mention grabbing a couple of drinks in our first email. For many reasons, we prefer to meet people in person. No pressure, no expectations. Face to face is where the possibility of friendship and more is going to be discovered. We've emailed a fair amount w/ people that sounded and looked wonderful only to discover no chemistry. We've also run into our fair share of couples that like the idea of playing and want to chat about meeting forever only for us to come to the conclusion that talking about playing probably enhances their sex life, but they don't really want to do it. That's fine. We get that, but that's not our deal. Besides, like our profile says ~ we do really enjoy meeting new people. What's the harm in a few drinks? We aren't going to kidnap anyone and drag them to the club! LOL! So, I guess what I'm saying is while the "Hey, like your profile. Wanna meet and f*ck?" is ridiculous and means that they likely didn't read your profile, a short, polite email may just be a way to see if you have any interest in them b/f spending more time sharing about themselves with you ~ of course, there has to be something in their profile for you to be interested in. ;)
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