No Thanx!!: Swingers Discussion 146169

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TOPIC: No Thanx!!

Created by: Mewzie	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm really not offended when somebody says thanks, but no thanks. I know that different people ahve different tastes. Doesn't offend me in the least. But I do think it is rude for people to not respond at all. Then again, if you are rude, unless you are some mega hottie, chances are you are not going to be as successful in the lifestyle as you could be. When people give me a decline, I just thank them for the courtesy of their response and wish them success.
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	At first, being ignored did sting. However, at this point, getting no response here is no different from saying hello to someone you pass in the hall and getting no response. Oh well. I'm still trying to figure out the cpl who asked us to meet 'em on Yahoo. When we got there, they fired off a (unrequested) pic of her and disconnected. Hmmm. If they didn't want to chat, why invite us to Yahoo? After they'd read & ignored our "wassup?" query, we used the "ignore" button. Good bye, have a nice life. :-) JnD
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (634 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you all have a lot more experience than I do. I've only been online hunting for 6 months or so. So my response is from the feelings of a newbie. I can say that, in the beginning, getting "no thanx" responses or no reposnses at all kinda hurt. Ok, go ahead and say it, I'm a little sensitive. But that's ok. I got a lot of them (or didn't get a lot of them, depends on how you look at it!). It toughened me up. In the beginning, I really did reread their and my profiles to see what I might have been doing wrong. I really wondered why so many people seemed so eager to meet others, and yet they never even took the time to answer my emails even though I seemed to match what they were looking for (maybe I'm just ugly). It was when I started getting a few responses to mail I sent weeks, even months before, that I realized people are busy (duh!). They aren't living on here like I am. Now, I didn't get responses from everybody of course, but it all taught me to just relax. Don't sweat any of it. I started realizing that, for every interesting person or couple I emailed and never got a response from, I found a new one to take their place! It really is wonderful to know that there are so many adventurous and sexy people out there, and not far away either. So to summarize, it can be pretty discouraging to the newcummer when they spend so much energy and time trying to reach out to people that never even look back. But it appears to be a necessary part of the initiation. My schedule isn't booked yet, but I am having a lot of fun chatting and getting to know a lot of people. Some day I plan to fill that calendar...
Ewing NJ			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would maybe take offense if I sent out party invites to people I already know and am friends with, and not necessarily swinging parties, and no one rsvp'd. I would also take offense when my Mom wants me to call her back, and she puts me on hold for ten minutes for call waiting. But to get upset at no thanks or no reply to an email we sent to someone we have never met? Why get offended, as there could be many reasons as to why they did not answer or did not want to meet? We answer almost all emails, except rude ones, but we respect someone's decision not to reply to us.
Quakertown PA			Username hidden (1831 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It was stated.."No reply certainly doesnt equate to a "No thanks" For you that might be the case, but for others it certainly does, we prefer to not take offense when our emails are not returned. "....So you're walking down the street and someone politely says "Hello" to you...Are you one of those people that look away and keep walking?" That truly depends on what I am doing, if I am busy damn straight, if not I may nod back. "If so....this "lifestyle" is not for you. " How adult of you to determine for an entire site of people what this lifestyle should and should not pertain of! "Maybe we were both raised wrong...but we believe in being polite...Something this world sorely needs!" While the world needs it the swing community does not need others coming here to preach how we need to act. If we all did exactly as our parents taught us how many would be fucking others in the first place? Obviously if someone does not return your email they are not interested.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1852 post)

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