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TOPIC: No_Response_to_Emails
Created by: bruinscouple17
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Is it common practice for people to not respond to emails? I personally find it rude to not respond to another persons message, even if its just to say "thanks, but we aren't interested" but we can't even seem to get that out of 80% of our emails. Does anyone else have this same issue and if so, do you feel the same way? I wonder if there is something wrong with our profile, or our pics or if it really just is other people prefer to be rude.

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Well I'm guilty of that. But here's the thing, if a single guy reaches out with a well thought message, I will respond 100%.

The ones that reach out with "no thought process" (like "hey we should meet"), I'm not going to bother.

If a guy reaches out and from the things he says, he clearly did not read our profile, I'm not going to bother.

If a guy reaches out automatically assuming that it's the female he's writing too (IE: You're beautiful, lets have fun), I'm not going to bother.

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Totally agree

Dallas GA
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welcome to the world of a single man...on this site..a simple not interested is all it takes..

Roswell GA
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We promise *in writing* to give a thoughtful reply to all *legitimate* emails we receive. We take the additional step of defining legitimate (in our particular case) as an email from a profile that has viewable and relevant photos of both the male and female.

Nevertheless, a large number of the emails we get receive zero response from us. We have asked for very little, and we won't recognize those who ignor it. Sowwy, but it's just too simple.

I also understand that there are plenty of folks who get no reply to legitimate emails (whatever that may be). I would agree that it is selfish and rude not to at least send a "quick reply" in this situation at the very least. Frustrating as that is, I don't see it as ever changing.

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We agree! We find it rude and disrespectful to not send an answer! It's discouraging when you send a hello ( any interest ) e-mail and never get a response. Not sure how to get the point across that even a no thanks e-mail would be the way to go. At first we thought it was just free members not answering but find that even paid and lifetime members don't have the common sense to just send an something back would go a long way! Just venting our frustration here as well!

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I do find it very rude not to answer. If we aren't interested we just say we aren't a good match. If we get something like this I always say thx for the reply and have fun out there

Dallas GA
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thing was hadnt opened any pics other than what was already visible....so who knows.

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Could it be that once they viewed your personal pictures that they lost interest. This has happened to us. Once the wife gets a look at the male (who is hidden from public pics) she looses interest.

Calcutta OH
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what I don't get is when someone writes to US and then I reply and they don't respond......ummm hello, you messaged me first. I have also found tho, the ones I message for the most part don't reply. IMO even if you aren't interested to "play" we are interested in making new friends....so you could at least write us back...I make it no secret I am a BBW , cant hide it, don't try to hide it..

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We respond to e-mails, except the one or two word type from shady looking profiles. If one or both of us isn't interested, then we say we're not a match. Only a couple times we've been asked why or they got snarky with a response, so we blocked them.

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