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TOPIC: No_Response_to_Emails
Created by: bruinscouple17
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Is it common practice for people to not respond to emails? I personally find it rude to not respond to another persons message, even if its just to say "thanks, but we aren't interested" but we can't even seem to get that out of 80% of our emails. Does anyone else have this same issue and if so, do you feel the same way? I wonder if there is something wrong with our profile, or our pics or if it really just is other people prefer to be rude.

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Hot24. I dont mind adding a couple of specifics, dove-tailing off LnT's post.

(1) Speaking "by the numbers," there probs arent going to be a high number of folks who would just want to watch another couple have sex. Thst is, goi g through all the work to meet, etc, just to watch. I know that is only the second half of your brief comment there, but I thought I would share on that part. A couple can go to a LS club and catch that at random, if that is their gig, without having to invest the time and effort of making a new acquaintance.

(2) if you reach out to a couple, it may be thst the man may feel a high risk of being marginalized in an encounter, because of the statement about "preferably seeking a female" for her. So even if that is not what you mean, it could be folks are reading that comment that way. So if I am the hubby, I am thinking, "if We play with them, you wife have a blast, but I want in on playing with that lovely lady too, and not as an afterthought, where you, wife are the primary focus. I want equitable access also."

Your profile doesnt read like thsts in the cards.

(3) the comment that this preferable female must be "NASTY" might be off putting becasue of its non-specificity. Does this mean water sports (probs not), BDSM, highly rough play, so,ething else? Trust me, when reading such brief profiles, these definition of terms is key, and the reafers' worde ideas of "NASTY" come to the forefront of thought. The all caps adds to this.

So, perhaps add some specifics here? Clarify what you mean perhaps? This will help. I am not making a call on anything you seek, but only that it is unclear.

She is a doll, so if you make it clear she is looking for guys as part of her equation, specify this. Then, there is no reason on that score you wouldnt have things lined up nicely otherwise.

Good luck!

Spartanburg SC
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Welcome to the forums, Hot24....

"Are we doing something wrong...?"

I'd say that you are. Based on this post and a quick look at your profile, I'd say that you possibly have an unrealustic view of what is actually available here and/or what is likely to happen based on the fairly narrow thing your profile says that you're wanting.

There may be others come along with more specifics, but I'll just leave things to them and wish you and yours a Happy Holidays.

Tramp

Alpharetta GA
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Hi we send emails almost daily..Only to have little response...Is thier something were not doing right..All we keep seeing is Unopened Unreplied..

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I wouldn’t take it personal. I can only imagine how many private messages the couples have to filter through. Sure, they may not respond within the time frame you want but I wouldn’t consider it a total loss. It’s possible that once your reputation begins to take off for the better, they may come around to it. Call me optimistic but that’s how I’ve view it. Ultimately, it’s best for you to move on and engage with those couples who have expressed interest.

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SM: I’d love to eat her.

Reply: With some fava beans and a nice chianti?

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Having certain others blocked and not seeing what they type isn't necessarily a bad thing, and besides, it will be gone in 24 hours and like it never happened. Classy Classy.

lol MOT, I see what you did there. :-)

~Allen

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Sheesh, 888, whats wrong with you? Its people like you that give ignoring obnoxious morons a badish name. Dont you get it? That activity he offers is so unheard of and rare, that you are crazed not to lesp at the chance. And before you ask, hells yeah you should pay for the room.

Gosh, some people....

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Yeah, sometimes just plain stupid too.

Email yesterday:

SM: I’d love to eat her.

Reply: Attaboy, that should swoon her enough to want to drop her panties to let you.

lol

~Allen

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They are rude

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I know of a VERY attractive young single female, whose vagina I miss, who got 425 emails her first day on SLS.

It slowed to a few dozen a day within a week, and then 5-10 a day.

2,000 a day - unless the profile is pictures of Remy Lacroix and promising to fuck anyone who emails, yeah - I don't buy it.

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