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TOPIC: No Response to Emails
Created by: bruinscouple17
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Is it common practice for people to not respond to emails? I personally find it rude to not respond to another persons message, even if its just to say "thanks, but we aren't interested" but we can't even seem to get that out of 80% of our emails. Does anyone else have this same issue and if so, do you feel the same way? I wonder if there is something wrong with our profile, or our pics or if it really just is other people prefer to be rude.

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Irish, that is hilarious,,

Spring TX
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Wrote you two a note of encouragement. No reply Lol!!

Jacksonville FL
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I always read over profiles before emailing anyone and try to mention something from their profile, just so they know i read their profile. I try to be personable and respectful, maybe i just don't have god choices in my area, who knows

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mr discrete, there are some messages that don't even merit the "quick reply"

but most messages that are longer than one or two words, and appear to have some thought behind them, do at least get a quick reply "thank you but no thank you and good luck"

Manville NJ
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There is always that quick reply you can add. Once you add quick reply, couple of clicks and you are done and all mystery for person who is writing email is solved.

North Brunswick NJ
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I guess if we were free members and inundated with email we would probably pass on one word/one liners. When we gave singles and free members access to our profile we received more email and yes some one liners. We found it very easy to type back, "thanks, but we are not interested"

Spring Lake NC
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You can think it rude if you like, but inevitably....

"Hi"

"Hi"

"How r u?"

"Fine thanks"

"Your wife is hot"

"Thanks"

"Would you like to chat?"

(Seems like that's what we are doing)

"What are you looking for?"

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10 emails and we've gotten nowhere.

Windermere FL
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I always respond to anyone who reaches out, even if they are rude, and those who say thanks but no. Common courtesy, IMO speaks volumes.

Haverhill MA
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Yea everyone is different. we like a response instead of being left in limbo. We have turned people down, and have been turned, down. Just part of the game.

Spring Lake NC
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I'll admit we're really bad a responding to messages, unless some item catches our eye. That being said we'd rather our own message be ignored then get a not interested message back. Everyone is different.

Grand Terrace CA
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TOPIC: No Response to Emails