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You can think it rude if you like, but inevitably....

"Hi"

"Hi"

"How r u?"

"Fine thanks"

"Your wife is hot"

"Thanks"

"Would you like to chat?"

(Seems like that's what we are doing)

"What are you looking for?"

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10 emails and we've gotten nowhere.

Windermere FL
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I always respond to anyone who reaches out, even if they are rude, and those who say thanks but no. Common courtesy, IMO speaks volumes.

Haverhill MA
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Yea everyone is different. we like a response instead of being left in limbo. We have turned people down, and have been turned, down. Just part of the game.

Calcutta OH
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I'll admit we're really bad a responding to messages, unless some item catches our eye. That being said we'd rather our own message be ignored then get a not interested message back. Everyone is different.

Long Beach CA
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We agree with you MoT1974, if its a couple saying hi or how you doing we will respond back. Why be ignorant to people. They could be a little nervous about first contact, or maybe afraid of rejection.

Calcutta OH
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*they're* (ugh)

Spartanburg SC
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While I agree with VA below, I notice that a lot/several folks have noted examples of messages that they ignore. Now aside from the overly-crass, etc. messages, I for one would NOT necessarily ignore a brief message like VA below notes.

Is it just me, or do these brief messages not at least stimulate us to view the photos of the person(s) who messaged us? At least for me, if the lady or lady half of the couple who message me with "sexy" or "how are you?" is particularly to my liking, I'm sure as hell not going to let a brief msg like that trigger a "no response ."

(Such brief messages, I for one at least, I don't struggle with anyway....hey, their showing interest. Maybe they're intimidated and yet want to let me know that they're into what they see and have read. I don't mind taking those as kindly signs of interest.).

Spartanburg SC
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Just wondering : what is your typical intro email like?

At least 1/3 of the email we get is "Hi", "How are you?" or "Sexy!".

Not saying that's what you're doing....just wanted to rule out that possibility. We universally ignore emails like that.

Windermere FL
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S and F, please let someone coach you. maybe your approach needs a bit of work. This site is great for many. Maybe try the newby or profile threads. I got super frustrated for a while also.

LR

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We have emailed just about every person on here in our area, that fits into what we are looking for. Still no emails back,are they even being sent? Just seems the odds would even or at some point. Live and learn i guess, but this site is a waste of money.

Indianapolis IN
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