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TOPIC: No_Response_to_Emails
Created by: bruinscouple17
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Is it common practice for people to not respond to emails? I personally find it rude to not respond to another persons message, even if its just to say "thanks, but we aren't interested" but we can't even seem to get that out of 80% of our emails. Does anyone else have this same issue and if so, do you feel the same way? I wonder if there is something wrong with our profile, or our pics or if it really just is other people prefer to be rude.

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We respond to e-mails, except the one or two word type from shady looking profiles. If one or both of us isn't interested, then we say we're not a match. Only a couple times we've been asked why or they got snarky with a response, so we blocked them.

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Thanks for the advice eatme. Still new to the site and the LS but enjoying learning our way around. Nice profile btw, actually read the whole thing. Too bad you guys don't live a little closer. Merry Christmas.

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OMC: You may have misinterpreted my comment. Courtesy is a good thing; the reply is enough, but to explain why for your answer, we would block. We reply to emails and have had others ask why; we were courteous and even replied, then the name calling and shit storm of drama we can live without follows. Live and learn. Block when asked why. ;-)

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Didn't block and haven't heard from them again. Guess that's the problem with responding to all, if we hadn't declined we may have never heard from them again. So much for trying to show some common courtesy.

Summerville SC
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888 totally agree including those that get off on degrading remarks. BLOCK!

Woodstock GA
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"Only mail we haven't responded to was one asking why when we said we didn't think we were compatible."

Block. That crap can only have drama hidden in it like a Trojan Horse; nothing good comes from answering those.

Charles Town WV
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We know what you mean;)

Summerville SC
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openminded,

don't sweat it. you'll find the right people. i have learned that it takes a *lot* of time and patience, especially when one is picky.

unfortunately for me, most mighty fine prospects live too far away.

Manville NJ
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Only mail we haven't responded to was one asking why when we said we didn't think we were compatible. Otherwise we respond except for ones saying hung and horny with no other substance to them. Appreciate a response as well when we initiate contact but guess no reply is the same as not interested. To each their own we suppose.

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I have been wondering the same thing. Even if they say, thanks but you are not our type or whatever, but at least to acknowledge the message that you sent would be nice. We are not renewing when our paid membership comes up in January, because no one is answering. We are going to try out some clubs and see if it gets better that way

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