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LOL, I'm rarely accused of being a man of few words. I guess I could afford to be thriftier with words in my profiles and posts on adult sites, because of the generational pandemic of people with short attention spans.

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....a man of few words

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It's best to begin the icebreaking during pre-meeting communications with couples or men. My ex hotwife and I swung for the pure excitement, newness and thrill of sex with others and watching each other have sex with others. Each time we agreed to meet a couple or a solo man, we made it clear in a non-aggressive, non pushy way that if we met in person and hit it off over drinks or dinner, we'd be good to go ! We preferred hosting at our home but we agreed before the meet at whose home we'd play. The great majority of couples expressed the desire to play at our home if we hit it off. That in itself was an icebreaker. Basically, when my wife and I'd made up our minds that were going to play with a couple or man, one or both of them would have had to be very obese, very ugly or very unhygienic for us to change our minds at dinner LOL. We'd both be very warm and flirty and take it upon ourselves to make the other couple feel comfortable. Usually the ice was broken and anticipation was in the air very quickly. One of the other things we did as an icebreaker was to offer to swap spouses for the drive to our place or theirs. Only once or twice did a couple decline that offer, but they still either followed us home or we followed them home. We did the same thing thing with solo men except I'd follow my wife and our male partner. It was quite hot to be following and watching my wife and the other man on the drive home. She had no qualms about rubbing his cock or scrooching up close to him. With couples, I had no qualms putting my arm around his wife and lightly brushing her breasts or either reaching over to stroke her inner thighs to gage her reaction. Most of the times we'd all groped each other well before we arrived home. No icebreaker was needed after that. We simply went straight to stripping down to play. He and I would quickly be naked while the wives took off their overclothes to reveal sexy panties, bras, stockings/garters and high heels. Usually we liked to make out and grope in a den or living room and then progress to a bedroom or separate bedrooms. There were only 3 instances in 20 years of swinging that the couple or man begged off after we'd had drinks or dinner. We only ever had a few no-shows for drinks & dinner and they were all men.

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NGSB.....That is one of the best icebreakers I have heard......Have to give that a try....LOL

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How about just asking "can I put your legs on my shoulders ". Haha

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We just bought some X-rated games. One is like Jenga, the other is a board game with cards. There's lots of creative stuff out there! We played each one as a couple and agreed they would be nice for our intro with others.

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UNO dare......with some creative dares works quite well.

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We find a game of strip poker is a nice segue into playtime with a couple we'll be playing with the first time. Other times it's a simple " well, are we ready to play?" LOL!

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People used to groan and roll their eyes when offered to see home movies, but this might be different. "How we spent our (Hedo) vacation"

Welcome to the forums.

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