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TOPIC: How to make a good first impression

Created by: AnEnglishmanInBoston Original Starting post for this thread:
One, I'm a single male. Two, I'm new here. Put them together and there is the very real chance that if I make first contact, I'm going to blow it before I've even had a chance to to convince them that I'm not some testosterone filled idiot looking to score. Alternatively, if I come across too timid, not enough of a man to satisfy a woman. And that is what I'm looking for. To satisfy a woman. If her partner is there, all the better. The amazing thing about the female body is that it is pretty much impossible to stimulate all her erogenous zones with one set of appendages. But I appear to be getting ahead of myself. First I have to make a good impression. Any suggestions?

Created by: AnEnglishmanInBoston
Original Starting post for this thread:

One, I'm a single male.
Two, I'm new here.

Put them together and there is the very real chance that if I make first contact, I'm going to blow it before I've even had a chance to to convince them that I'm not some testosterone filled idiot looking to score.  Alternatively, if I come across too timid, not enough of a man to satisfy a woman.

And that is what I'm looking for.  To satisfy a woman.  If her partner is there, all the better.  The amazing thing about the female body is that it is pretty much impossible to stimulate all her erogenous zones with one set of appendages.

But I appear to be getting ahead of myself.  First I have to make a good impression.  Any suggestions?

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User Details are only visible to members.	The most important thing when contacting anyone is to make sure you've read the profile thoroughly and that you meet each and every criteria they list. Never expect anyone to over look the fact that your profile doesn't reflect what they are looking for on every level.......and than expect to get ignored or turned down by most lol. That's just how it goes, never personalize their rejection. Never IM anyone without first sending an introduction email and only IM if they responded with interest. You're email should mention of what you liked about their profile specifically. Always always always give them immediate access to your gallery that includes clear face shots....save any sexually graphic photos for a later email should it go that far. Never suggest a meeting in the first email, just express you're interested. Never brag about your sexual abilities or your equipment. If you are complimenting on their photos be respectful and classy in your words. Check your email carefully for grammar and spelling errors before sending it. I'm sure there are many other pitfalls but these to me are a good starting guideline. Mrs Sav
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User Details are only visible to members.	One, I'm a single male. Two, I'm new here. Put them together and there is the very real chance that if I make first contact, I'm going to blow it before I've even had a chance to to convince them that I'm not some testosterone filled idiot looking to score. Alternatively, if I come across too timid, not enough of a man to satisfy a woman. And that is what I'm looking for. To satisfy a woman. If her partner is there, all the better. The amazing thing about the female body is that it is pretty much impossible to stimulate all her erogenous zones with one set of appendages. But I appear to be getting ahead of myself. First I have to make a good impression. Any suggestions?
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