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TOPIC: Hey Newbies, getting yourself a mentor can mean all the world to happy swinging
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When we were first thinking of taking up the lifestyle we met a Wonderful couple from NJ on IRC (we're in IL). We talked with them on the phone for Hours, finally hanging up around 3AM. They were so helpful and kind, and they really tried hard to answer our concerns and questions. I wish we knew where they were now, but we lost touch with them after they moved.

I'm wondering if SLS would consider adding a Mentor Group or something like that for couples willing to talk with new people and act as mentors? Hmm...perhaps I'll just start a group like that on our own and see what happens? Regardless, we've been swinging for almost twenty years, just celebrated our 37th anniversary, and even more in Luv than the day we tied the knot! We'd be tickled to talk with any new people who were inclined to msg us here at SLS. Just returning the favor that our lost friends did for us.

Live Long and Prosper!

JnD


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Xtine it sounds like you had a good time, and found a perfect couple.

Mrs Voya

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Welcum to the forums Mss,

I read your other posts early this morning and perved your profile then. I just reperved you! LoL! I have to say, your other post left me inspired. LoL! I am not in PA, but if you ever have questions and are patient for my responses, I would certainly love to help if you have any questions. People may look at me as a bi-single female, but who else gets hit on as much. LoL! I can certainly give advice a little advice from all my years of swinging. *WEG*

RaveN ( :~

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The forums make a great substitute mentor.

Fort Worth TX
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OMG!!! I never even paid much attention to the background. Thanks Akron. I will have to get something different up soon. I deleted the pic.

Bryan TX
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We are newbies and have learned a few things just from talking to others online. We actually started with just a male joining...taking it one step at a time. Then we took a little time off and are now ready to take the next step with a couple. We have met a wonderful couple locally that we are becoming great friends with, they have experience, and they make us feel quite comfortable and like we can ask any question (no matter how dumb we think it is) and we will get as helpful and honest a response as they can give. We will still be a little nervous our first time..but we are open with each other and honest and we do talk about it. That helps alot!!!. As a newbie any advice is appreciated and answers to questions is GREAT!!! For us personally though, I feel taking some time before you jump right in is the key for more fun.

Bryan TX
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Quietly walks into the room seeing if anyone will notice...............

Whispers to the girl in the corner..........how far is columbia maryland?

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i REALLY need a mentor. would prefer a local woman, if possible, bi female. anyone interested?

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OOOOOOOOOO I gots me a virgin poster and one not-so-virgin! How lucky of me!!!!!

I like to get to know a couple before getting involved. So many times I was glad that I delayed the playtime. Had I not, I wouldnt have known the drama to come. It's so easy to just jump right in cause youre excited. But time will tell if the experience could be better or worse!

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I think this a very good , newbies need someone they can talk to.Feeling like no could understand is hard. The time is scarrey

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