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TOPIC: Hey Newbies, getting yourself a mentor can mean all the world to happy swinging
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OMG!!! I never even paid much attention to the background. Thanks Akron. I will have to get something different up soon. I deleted the pic.

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We are newbies and have learned a few things just from talking to others online. We actually started with just a male joining...taking it one step at a time. Then we took a little time off and are now ready to take the next step with a couple. We have met a wonderful couple locally that we are becoming great friends with, they have experience, and they make us feel quite comfortable and like we can ask any question (no matter how dumb we think it is) and we will get as helpful and honest a response as they can give. We will still be a little nervous our first time..but we are open with each other and honest and we do talk about it. That helps alot!!!. As a newbie any advice is appreciated and answers to questions is GREAT!!! For us personally though, I feel taking some time before you jump right in is the key for more fun.

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Quietly walks into the room seeing if anyone will notice...............

Whispers to the girl in the corner..........how far is columbia maryland?

Lancaster PA
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i REALLY need a mentor. would prefer a local woman, if possible, bi female. anyone interested?

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OOOOOOOOOO I gots me a virgin poster and one not-so-virgin! How lucky of me!!!!!

I like to get to know a couple before getting involved. So many times I was glad that I delayed the playtime. Had I not, I wouldnt have known the drama to come. It's so easy to just jump right in cause youre excited. But time will tell if the experience could be better or worse!

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I think this a very good , newbies need someone they can talk to.Feeling like no could understand is hard. The time is scarrey

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I would try to answer any questions or concerns they may have. Even share some they probably didnt think of at the beginning stage. But one thing I have learned, NEVER, NEVER "help" them personally if your friendship with them is important to keep. I have seen so many friendships end in animosity over situations, so would never get involved until they gained understanding and felt comfortable in the lifestyle.

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Anyone care to share any thoughts on vanilla friends who are interested in swinging? Leave them to it on their own, or help them out with their questions and concerns? Mrs

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Thats a great idea! Id start it, but as a single girl, I couldnt handle the private emails that would follow! LOL

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There has been one or two I have seen, but they were escorted out due to that behavior. Seems that wherever I am ~ They are there as well! Must have a perv magnet on my ass! LOL

anytime you wanna join me ~ Let me know!

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