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Oh one last thing.. when we were in Vegas we ran across a certain individual who insisted on taking photos and video. We learned he sells those to PORN sites.. needless to say we do not do any videos or photos because.. well we just don't want to put what we do on PORN sites under someone else's dime and both have very public careers and we do not need to brag or show others what we do in the bedroom.

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tantric.. you are spot on.. we have been in the lifestyle a long time but only on this SLS site a couple years. Prior we were in South Florida and basically just went out with several known couples and venues we frequented. Even for us we had to learn about the fakes, picture collectors, BS artists and no shows, etc. We have had to refine our profile several times to narrow down what and who we play with. We have even come across those at an event this past Saturday at an event who were gaulkers and voyeurs.. we clearly know what we want and it works for us. So as far as newbies.. I have reached out to several only to say HI and give some advice on some of our pitfalls.

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We are just jumping back into this and event the last time wasn't for very long. So we are still what I would call newbies. How do you find a mentor who can help you with all the bumps?

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I/we Mentor people all the time and it definitely makes a difference in the community. Anyone should feel free to ask us anything.

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Well us being very new, we don't have much perspective, but we did find a couple that has been answering questions and letting us know how the real scene works, with out being pushy or having expectations. It has helped us greatly over the last few days and we are getting more and more excited

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Well us being very new, we don't have much perspective, but we did find a couple that has been answering questions and letting us know how the real scene works, with out being pushy or having expectations. It has helped us greatly over the last few days and we are getting more and more excited

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Well us being very new, we don't have much perspective, but we did find a couple that has been answering questions and letting us know how the real scene works, with out being pushy or having expectations. It has helped us greatly over the last few days and we are getting more and more excited

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Well us being very new, we don't have much perspective, but we did find a couple that has been answering questions and letting us know how the real scene works, with out being pushy or having expectations. It has helped us greatly over the last few days and we are getting more and more excited

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Just a thought for last two posts - not every mentor need be someone physically in your area. You might reach out to some you have met online. Additionally, reading several of the forum threads might give you a good idea of what some members went through when they were new. Take a look-see through the threads, there's some good and some funny stuff in here.

Best of luck & Enjoy

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It's hard enough just finding people, period. How do you find a mentor? Especially up here in Alaska!

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