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User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you for your input Kat and Fun. It's true - we have been at this a long time and remain optimistic. We believe there must be another sexy couple out there (not to far from home) that share our views. We are definitely not shy!! We'll keep searching. We appreciate the encouragement. :-)
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User Details are only visible to members.	EE ~~ You might try putting that request in your tag line. I'm surprised, as you've been on the site since 2008....but then I know it's difficult to find people for the kind of play you're looking for. When we started out, we had a mentor couple and it was wonderful - were able to ask a zillion questions and felt comfortable taking our time. Best wishes : ) Kat
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User Details are only visible to members.	EnjoyingExpectations, welcome to the forums. I hope you find that mentor couple. You might want to look at some of the threads in the "soft swinger" section.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Could we ever use a Mentor Couple!!! We want to keep it soft and very sexy.
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User Details are only visible to members.	We heartily agree with the mentor concept. We found a couple of couples on SLS who gave us good advice. The forums here were also generally helpful. By fate or plain luck, we found a couple within a couple of months on sls. They had been looking for over a year but never found anyone they felt comfortable meeting. We got to know each other, then met. So, these four "virgins" are now mentoring each other. :) We think the world of them and we think we've found friends that will be around for a while. But, taking time to seek out sound advice and do some research will pay off, in our opinion. --J&T
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User Details are only visible to members.	Any mentors in the Buffalo/Niagara area? I am totally lost in all of this, but totally turned on! :D
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User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with you tantric, I was graced with the one of the best gifts of all, having my mentor also be my friends, and one that I get to see on a regular basis. We met this summer but he has been so helpful to me and James that I don't think we would've ever really "took the plunge" so to speak into meeting with our first couple if it wasn't for his advice. He's a really great guy, if anyone is looking for a mentor his username is Tomthumb8. Meeting him and having him look over my husband and I's travel into this new territory has definitely changed our lives and I'm thankful for him
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User Details are only visible to members.	We just joined a few weeks ago right before having our first club experience. I don't know that we really have a mentor, per se, but we do have an experience couple that we've been talking with and their advice has been invaluable. My husband's had been saying that he wanted to talk to someone who both experienced in the lifestyle and also had been together for a long time. We were lucky to find that in one of the very first couples we contacted. And btw, we didn't specifically set out to find this couple, I just emailed them a question about a local club and we got lucky. Well, not LUCKY, but you know what I mean! ;)
Kyle TX			Username hidden (5 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When we were first thinking of taking up the lifestyle we met a Wonderful couple from NJ on IRC (we're in IL). We talked with them on the phone for Hours, finally hanging up around 3AM. They were so helpful and kind, and they really tried hard to answer our concerns and questions. I wish we knew where they were now, but we lost touch with them after they moved. I'm wondering if SLS would consider adding a Mentor Group or something like that for couples willing to talk with new people and act as mentors? Hmm...perhaps I'll just start a group like that on our own and see what happens? Regardless, we've been swinging for almost twenty years, just celebrated our 37th anniversary, and even more in Luv than the day we tied the knot! We'd be tickled to talk with any new people who were inclined to msg us here at SLS. Just returning the favor that our lost friends did for us. Live Long and Prosper! JnD
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User Details are only visible to members.	Xtine it sounds like you had a good time, and found a perfect couple. Mrs Voya
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