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TOPIC: Hey Newbies, getting yourself a mentor can mean all the world to happy swinging
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Thats kinda what I've already done --without even seeing this post. I have found 2 couples who I have not met yet but are in my area, and they have years of experience in the lifestyle. And they have allowed me to ask any questions I have. And I have asked quiet a few ;-) But they have made me feel very comfrotable and at ease and I can chat freely. I do agree this is a great idea!

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There are plenty of cpls on SLS with bi or bi-curious ladies, so that shouldn't be a problem. If you keep your eyes and options open, and allow yourself time, you'll cross paths with several in your area, I'm sure. Is it essential that a mentor be local? If you're looking for someone who can share information, provide encouragement and guidance, then I'd say no. If you're looking for someone who would also be available for play-dates, then probably yes. Be aware that if you limit yourself to local ppl only, you restrict your possibilities.

When we first because interested in the LS, we crossed paths with a very nice cpl in NJ. We never did get to meet, but they were very kind and supportive and helped us immensely.

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Thanks Jack and/or Darlene. My problem is that I have a very, very slight bi- curiosity and do not want any pressure at all to be with a woman. I prefer men, adore them , crave them, and love pleasing them. On rare occasion (extremely rare) I have met a woman that I was interested in, but I have never done anything about it before. I agree that most of the SM I have met on here so far... seem to tell me what ever I want to hear.

What I would love is to get advice from a single woman on how to meet a SM safely as possible. I do understand there will always be some element of risk involved. Is there a couple out there that has a single man the see on occasion looking for a possible swinging partner?

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Hiker; I suspect that the advise to hook up with a couple was not so much that you should consider playing with a couple as that they can advise you from both sides of the aisle. The M half has his perspective, the F half has her perspective. There are plenty of SM's on SLS, and I don't doubt that most of them will say whatever they think they need to say to get under the sheets with you. There is a reason why SM's struggle in the lifestyle. Most (but not all) of them are simply horny and could care less about the ladies experience. Further, I suspect (but can't prove) that couples last longer than SM's in the lifestyle and hence have a deeper and broader pool of experience to draw on. Hope that it works out well for you, whatever you end up doing! :-)

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I am a new single female to the site and would love a mentor that can help me learn to do this as safely as possible. I have been told to hook up with couples but I sexually prefer to please men. Any help and advise would be appreciated, Thanks

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Having a mentor would be a great idea. I swung with a couple for a while twenty years ago, and it was great and lasted a couple of years. I have been trying to get into LS for almost 9 months and it has been tough. But I can imagine the complexity and dynamics of the new relationship, because I experienced some...

Having a mentor online or in person would be great for me right now. I am not progressing despite my good efforts. I am from the National Capital Region in Canada and maybe it is too small a city.

Any advice would be great!

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Anyone care to mentor a couple in El Paso, Tx. My wife is somewhat reluctant and needs a females perpesctive on the lifestyle which I, unfortunately, cannot provide.

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I'd mentor the little lady for you.

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We are brand new, and a trusting mentor would be amazing, but I can barely find one couple, how would I find a mentor?

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Welcome Kinky,

The forums have a wealth of topics and many lovely people who will be more than willing to answer your questions. We look forward to hearing more from you in the forums.

Happiness and success, Mrs Sav

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