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There are some things you might really want to discuss before hand between yourselves. For instance Same room or separate rooms. Will you play together or fine with one half of you you going off to play alone with another? Are you interested in 2 somes, MFM or FMF ? Another potential issue can be personal contact before or after. Are you each comfortable with your partner having texts or phone conversations with someone else that may or may not be sexual and don't include you. I'm not trying to scare you but the more prepared you are for things that will come up the easier time you will have dealing with them.

Just to name a few

Mrs Sav

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Do make sure you're on the same page and everyone understands the rules and or limits.

Don't set you expectations of the complete experience that nothing/no one could possibly live up to it.

Do make sure you and your partner have some subtle cue if things aren't going well or you have a concern, fear or issue. Agree before hand that if one of you is not having fun it is time to go home! No arguments, no whining , no problem. Do make sure you discuss after the fact how you felt, what you liked or didn't like and how to make the next time better.

Don't consider a bad experience a "mistake" think of it as a learning process. Do not EVER change your rules in the heat of the moment, re evaluate your desires/rules outside of the bedroom when you both are level headed and thinking with your hearts and minds not your hormones.

Welcome to swinging , be patient, keep talking and good luck to you.

Mrs Sav

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