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When we first started out, we had a terrible time with that first email. We always said the wrong thing and undoubtedly came across either rude or fake or whatever.

Now we just try to be friendly and straightforward with that first email... introduce ourselves, tell what we liked about them, and ask them to let us know if they are interested.

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Some of the "courtship" of swinging seems backwards..we show our naked body's to each other first...faces last...We talk about sex before we've even met...And swinging has many rules traditional courtship does not...but some things should always be the same when meeting other people....Kindness and honesty...My wife and i prefer to stick with the "traditional" route..showing our face pics and leaving the naked stuff for our bedroom....We don't like the "reverse courtship" most on the site practice so my advice is to stick with how you approach it in the vanilla world...do what's natural..even the most hard-core among us are turned off by vulgar insensitivity...wow i ramble too much sorry...=^) B

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I've got a window in my schedule TONIGHT.

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Don't write your first mail asking is someone wants to fuck tonight, maybe they do, but that's not a good first impression to make.

Do treat everyone with respect, if you're not interested, say so.

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