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We're not as arrogant as I make us sound.

I only point out the stuff to bitch about on here.

We do get nice emails and have nice exchanges and some we end up playing.

If someone outside of our desires emails and just wants to chat for whatever reason, and they are nice, we dont blow them off.

I think its just surprising how the numbers work. You would think most emails would be good, and a few bad apples.
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You never can tell. I recently declined (politefully) to meet a couple, and got back from them a very nice email profusely thanking me for taking the time to reply. Another couple (free members for several years, with no pics and no certs) wrote me a nastygram saying I needed psychiatric treatment because I declined their overture. You never can tell.
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I disagree.

Ive said many times on here.....If you dont "follow the directions" in our profile and email us, we either wont respond or will send a sarcastic snotty response.

We are right up front in our profile stating the types of emails we wont respond to.

So if youre a 45 year old straight traveler who sends us a one line email with no pics. (Basically summing up exactly what we say we dont want) then you wont get a response or depending on our mood a nasty one.

If you match what we say we are looking for, and "follow directions" then we will respond even if its to say we arent interested.
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I think not responding is rude. We liken it to a wave. If you wave at someone and you know they saw it, the least they could do is wave back.

When you mail someone, you expect some kind of reply. A simple yes or no is even good enough. But ignoring? Rude.

And if you respond and they get snotty, block em. Easy as that.

My 2 cents worth
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I am certainly looking forward to it... Please let me know when and I will make our date top priority!

I am serious and I hope you are! :)
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Babe, my comment on your new pics is that they made my cock hard as a rock. Now I just need Santa's little helper to come over here and "help."
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That always sucks... But at least neither you, nor me wasted time to meet such people only to find out they would not show up!

No comment on my new pictures? Lol!
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Babe, at least you didn't have to waste any time. I got an email from a couple once that just asked me to tell them a little about myself. I thought that strange since my profile is fairly detailed. But they had a nice profile so I wrote a couple of paragraphs and replied. No answer.

A month later, I get another email from the same couple, the exact same wording (even including a minor typo). I ignored it, and the identical email I got a few months later.
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Well, now I find myself joining the ranks of fellow SLSers that don't respond to certain emails...

Two examples of mail received recently:

One email read: "Hello!"
If they bothered to read my profile they would have seen that this is one type of email I will NOT respond to! I like to think that I (and anyone for that matter) am worth more than just a mere "hello"!

Second email (from a couple without any pictures and literally one line sentence in every section of their profile) read: "Write us sometime!"

Huh? Write you sometime? Really? Are you f***ing kidding me?

Delete

LMAO :)
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