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and by the way milfordpacouple, you are breath taking in your photos


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MilfordPacouple, one thing I seen , three ,types of couples, one who ask everybody and anybody, they are fishing, usually pushy , not my style. second, like the forum has mentioned , they are looking for a better deal and loose the ideal of swinging. Third, timid, this would be me, but for reasons. need to talk to the couple first for awhile to warm up, swap some nice pics. and build from there.


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I guess that is the silver lining in this. Better to have found out this way what tools they are than to bump into them someplace. I just for the life of me can't understand why people are so rude. Another set of "keyboard commandos"

Kat, you know Easton isn't all that far away ;)

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Milford ... aren't you glad to have discovered their lack of social skills (not to mention consideration) before going any further? They can be said to have self-selected themselves (and their drama) out of your lives, for which I suppose one could be grateful. Who needs people with attitudes like that. I don't imagine that you're missing very much there. :-)

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On the flip side to the OP's statements. My wife made contact with a couple and since we made the first contact we opened our pictures. The email that we received was "You actually think you have a chance with us. Please" There was absolutely no reason for such a rude response. This is a case where no reply would have been better than the one we received.

To be honest it's really pissed me off. I get tired of running into people in this lifestyle who seem to think that they are better than us.

Clint & Susan

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even tougher: responding to a second email where the original emailer opened their pics after a request.... a rejection at that point only says one thing: "you're butt ugly"

we appreciate it when people first contact us to have a face pic opened, we hate getting an enticing email, reading the profile and finding compatibility, but they don't include a face pic, then we have to ask, and there are times the faces just don't do it for us.... and then we really hate sending a rejection... cause it's hard to lie at that point.....

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The original post, Pittcouple, and others all tell a familiar story that speaks to the lack of respect people show. Given the environment we have become believers that no reply is a reply and we accept the same in return. We have people that don't even read the first line of our profile and expect to have more of our time and do the reading for them. In our opinion, respect gets respect, reading and showing interest in a profile should get same. Here's to hoping for more civility, few judgements, and better profiles!

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Sorry about the last post. I guess I had more wine then I thought. Fun times, have a great week- end

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I get turn down very often, either with no respones or no thanks. The way I look at they just don't want to hang out, to fiends or other wise. So I move on If I have emailed yo more then once, I'm sorry want happen again. Want people to hang out with me for me. Thank you to all that's up front.

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We don't want this to turn into a diatribe by us on bad introductions, but we had another one today...we e-mailed a newer couple close to us and said hello, and we got a reply back that said roughly (after their end looked at our profile and saw that we don't play without condoms and that we like to establish a friendship with the couples we play with) that "condoms are for newbies only" and "no one in this lifestyle wants to become friends...they just want to fuck each other's wives".

Well, how nice! Needless to say we blocked this couple. We really feel sorry for the couples they do wind up with.


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