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We're not as arrogant as I make us sound.

I only point out the stuff to bitch about on here.

We do get nice emails and have nice exchanges and some we end up playing.

If someone outside of our desires emails and just wants to chat for whatever reason, and they are nice, we dont blow them off.

I think its just surprising how the numbers work. You would think most emails would be good, and a few bad apples.

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You never can tell. I recently declined (politefully) to meet a couple, and got back from them a very nice email profusely thanking me for taking the time to reply. Another couple (free members for several years, with no pics and no certs) wrote me a nastygram saying I needed psychiatric treatment because I declined their overture. You never can tell.

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I disagree.

Ive said many times on here.....If you dont "follow the directions" in our profile and email us, we either wont respond or will send a sarcastic snotty response.

We are right up front in our profile stating the types of emails we wont respond to.

So if youre a 45 year old straight traveler who sends us a one line email with no pics. (Basically summing up exactly what we say we dont want) then you wont get a response or depending on our mood a nasty one.

If you match what we say we are looking for, and "follow directions" then we will respond even if its to say we arent interested.

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I think not responding is rude. We liken it to a wave. If you wave at someone and you know they saw it, the least they could do is wave back.

When you mail someone, you expect some kind of reply. A simple yes or no is even good enough. But ignoring? Rude.

And if you respond and they get snotty, block em. Easy as that.

My 2 cents worth

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Babe, my comment on your new pics is that they made my cock hard as a rock. Now I just need Santa's little helper to come over here and "help."

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Babe, at least you didn't have to waste any time. I got an email from a couple once that just asked me to tell them a little about myself. I thought that strange since my profile is fairly detailed. But they had a nice profile so I wrote a couple of paragraphs and replied. No answer.

A month later, I get another email from the same couple, the exact same wording (even including a minor typo). I ignored it, and the identical email I got a few months later.

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Yeah we just got one of those emails ... they failed to read our profile came down from Canada for a month. Only a week left for them here ...they were staying 2 plus hours away from us looking for a bi female not a curious one ... we state that me the male will chat with people till we meet due to rudeness of folks ... we have enough certs to prove whom we are ... but they wanted the women only to chat , not looking for a one night stand ... first nite might be coffee ( all cool when you state in your profile you have time ) my wife and I composed email and told them hey we aren't looking for a bi female , that my wife is selectively bi re emphasized that I the male would act as pointman ... we turned them down and said we just werent interested ... they in turn sent one back saying that they wanted the women to chat since they're so many fakes out there ( WE HAVE RECENT CERTS ) that I was a CONTROL freak ???? and good luck with our search ( WHAT???? We didn't even look them up, have plenty on our plate here without running desperately across the continent much less two plus hours just for a cup of coffee ofr them to try and get a piece of ass from my wife as a one night stand ) sorry just a little bit upset using this to vent

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I had a single female profile on another site a few years back and received 600 e-mails in the first three weeks. No, I did not respond to each. I would have had to fire a full time personal secretary to do so. I think that is way beyond the call of duty. The greatest thing about not responding is its expedience.

In a perfect world we would all be so polite. But swing sites are not perfect worlds. They are filled with idiots mass mailing people whose profile they have not even bothered to read. They are not owed this "courtesy" in my opinion.

When I have replied "no thanks" I usually have received a nasty reply back. So, I have adopted a "no reply is a courteous no thank you" approach and find it works fine. It appears the folks offended by this policy are more likely just bitter about the lack of interest they receive on sites like this.

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I dont bother answering most emails, I have on my profile I am seeking women only, its obvious that they have not read the profile. If they have read the profile I will answer. If they are rude they get blocked.

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we got 3 emails recently(within the last two weeks) from 3 different couples, one we thought that we did not have anything in common with them so we politely said no thank you, and they were ok with it and thanked us for emailing back.

the second(well let me set this up). John's mother passed away 2 weeks ago, and we told that couple that we liked their profile but we cant right now because John's mother passed away and need to get family affairs in order first before we begin to play again. well we get an email back that said if we cant play now then forget it,and that we should have our profile offline if we cant play. I thought that was very very rude, so we blocked them. the third couple we explained the same thing to them and we also liked their profile, and they said take your time and when you ready contact us, and we thought that was very polite. Since i have been answering emails for John it just floored me what John must go thru most of the time answering emails that he never tells me about, He just shows me the profiles we may be interested in and we decide together. since neither of us take one for the team.

but reading this forum threed i was amazed at how rude some people are with you other couples also.

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