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TOPIC: And THIS is why people don't respond to emails
Created by: columbiacouple27
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Got an email from a couple recently that quite frankly hadn't really read our profile and were clearly not what we are looking for. We sent them a pretty standard reply basically saying thanks for the email but we're not interested. Got a nastygram back from them basically telling us what losers we are and how after looking at our profile again they're not really interested in us either. We try to reply to every email we get, but this kind of thing is SUCH a turn off that I really can understand why people take the position that no response is really it's own form of response.

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Message well received. Thank you!

Abilene TX
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abtx: welcome to the forums!

you will receive more feedback in the "better profiles" section so might want to post there.

more pics .= always a good thing when done "right"

might want to remove repetetive language (referring to drama multiple times, for example) and focus more on positivity/what you *are* seeking rather than what you're "not" interested in/looking for. i "get" what you're saying in your profile unfortunately it comes off overall a bit negative rather than flirty and seeking.

YMMV, JMHO.

again, welcome--and good luck!

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New Member here. First Post and we'd like it to be constructive. How about an option to mandate a quiz of sorts that members initiating contact but first complete? It would take additional work by the members by all, but could be a useful tool.

In the spirit of being constructive, feel free to review and politely criticize our profile. I get the impression it's easy to come off as jerks and we don't want that. However, we don't want to be dishonest either. If pictures are a suggestion, we know. We're getting to that. Just waiting till the mood strikes us so it'll be fun and That will make it more enjoyable for other members.

Bye for now!

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first contact from a couple, obviously did not read my profile--or, if they did, ignored what i said.

"hi we are interested in seeing if you are available to play on saturday night."

gee.

i sent the standard thank you sorry not interested.

Manville NJ
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new e mail from free members/over 7 months, zero photos. not a lot of text in the profile, seem nice enough but...new.

"we like your profile. let us know what you think."

enticing.

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FrF: Why don't you replay with a Nigerian scammer email? I found this nice sample:

I will introduce myself I am Mr.Wong du a Banker working in a bank in south Korea Until now I am the account officer to most of the south Korea government accounts and I have since discovered that most of the account are dormant account with a lot of money in the account on further investigation I found out that one particular account belong to the former president of south Korean MR PARK CHUNG HEE,who ruled south Korean from 1963-1979 and this particular account has a deposit of $48m with no next of kin.

My proposal is that since I am the account officer and the money or the account is dormant and there is no next of kin obviously the account owner the former president of South Korea has died long time ago, that you should provide an account for the money to be transferred.

The money that is floating in the bank right now is $48m and this is what I want to transfer to your account for our mutual benefit.

Please if this is okay by you I will advice that you contact me through my direct email address.

Please this transaction should be kept confidential. For your assistance as the account owner we shall share the money on equal basis.

Your reply will be appreciated,

Thank you.

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Just received an email from a couple in South Dakota. I always look at the profile before I open the email, just in case one of us put notes on it. Each section had a one line sentence which was made up of broken horrible grammar and spelling. Likewise, the email said. "Hi, are up you pretty pics" something like that.... No, not gonna answer it....

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Got an e-mail from a Couple profile that said: "She is sexy. Our male half would love to join you..." Apparently they were a couple at one time & had a few certs, but the most recent was 2010. We specifically state in red "No single males". Does this loser think he wouldn't be a single male even if he had a hall pass?

Princeton NJ
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single guy, decent enough profile, pics decent too.

free member for over 4 years. no certs.

intro e mail--no subject---entire message? "hi"

um....

Manville NJ
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single guy, been trying to coordinate coffee meet. keeps demanding i call or text.

finally this morning i said well let's just call it a day then and best of luck in your search.

~rolling eyes~ dude, bad vibe out of the gate? delete.

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TOPIC: And THIS is why people don't respond to emails