after the last stream of rude return emails I think we may just do that for the first part ... but since we don't belong to a group a no thank you with the possibility of blocking sounds so much easier LOL

When we receive a first contact we always send a return reply using the Quick Select menu, with a commitment to view the sender's profile and let the sender know our opinion, thought, and interest. Following that we make an assessment of the profile in relation to our interests and the private communication received from the sender. This is our way of determining if the sender actually read our profile and discovered a similarity between our interests and theirs. Then we send another private communication letting the sender know about our impression of their profile, the probability of meeting, and the possibility a swinging encounter based on the initial meeting. We often send an invitation to read our newsletter and join our group. We find that few who show interest will follow through in reading our newsletter to have advance notice of our swinging encounter preferences and locations. This also seems to be true regarding those who join our group. We use all of the SLS resources to help us discover match/mismatch factors and consistent intentions. Do any of you find the same protocol? Is it excessive? ~~ZZ~~ & **ZZ**