racism in the lifestyle: Swingers Discussion 635641091

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User Details are only visible to members.	yes...I do believe that people should think as I do...in so far as that they would view each person on the merits of that pesron as an individual. that way you'd never hear ..."I don't find black people attractive"...or you can insert any type of ethnicity.
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User Details are only visible to members.	It would be nice to be able to look at people as PEOPLE. However, a fact I am finding is that people are simply judgemental. Whether it be against race, creed, religion, socioeconomic status, whatever...we believe what we believe and the human being tends to think that others should believe as they do. We can be a very self destructive species indeed.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Whatever happened to viewing people individually? Instead of lumping them all together.
Chicago IL			Username hidden (211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Is there racism? Of course. Just this week I found out that a lady in this area hates me because she hates "beaners". And I don't have to tell you how she feels about african americans, do I? However, she doesn't want to not fuck me because I am mexican, she hates mexicans. There IS a difference between a racist like the prick I just described and a person like myself. I have friends of all races. I myself am biracial. However, I am almost always sexually attracted to whites. I do not say I limit myself of course and have played with latinos before. However, I'd be a hypocrite if I said that 99% of the time I did not prefer whites in a sexual way. Does that make me a racist? I think not. Because I usually am not attracted to african american men does not mean I HATE them...it just means I usually am not interested in fucking them.
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User Details are only visible to members.	This whole swing thing is about attraction. it becomes racist when another couple states "we are not into black men, etc." anything mentioning the fact that you dont want to play with us because i'm black. How else am I suppose to take it? It's racist...
Bronx NY			Username hidden (89 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"But when you're not allowed to state that opinion freely because another group of people suppress you, then that's racism. Any discrimination, oppression, abuse, crime, etc., committed by a people of power against a people without power is racism." Excellent post Gina (:
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User Details are only visible to members.	M, How about a small muscular dude?
Elkridge MD			Username hidden (480 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	generic gripe response: What happen to sexual attraction? Damn...really hate the fact that when I don't find your partner attractive I'm labeled a racist. Shallow perhaps, but then again this is about sexual fun. I just don't happen to be one of those people that will screw anyone just because they have the right parts. For all those griping about racism.... get over, get a clue. Swinging is about attraction and fantasy. I don't see you giving action to the 300 pound woman in the corner at the swing party. why because she doesn't turn you on. For the person that posted this thread.. sorry your guy is a BIG dude. He's going to intimidate some. He's being doing it all his life, if he doesn't realize it then he's been deluding himself.
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User Details are only visible to members.	The irony of all this discussion is that we are all ONE race, scientifically. Every single one of us is genetically related to a single woman who lived in northeast Africa approximately 100,000 years ago. Every other female genetic line died out, so all of us are descended from that "ancestral Eve." Similarly, every single one of us is descended from a single man who lived also in northeast Africa about 60,000 years ago. Every other male lineage died out. So we all have the same "ancestral Adam." Too bad they lived about 40,000 years apart. They didn't actually get to play together! Yes, folks, DNA has clearly demonstrated that we are all related to the same ancestors. That means we are all distant cousins. It sure makes "kissing cousins" sound better, doesn't it? LOL Our prejudices against "others" not like us is pretty hardwired and ingrained, though, and dates back to early human times when people lived in small "clans" who were in competition with and at risk of harm from other clans. Hence our tendency to feel that "if you're not like me, there's something WRONG with you." All racism is stupid. It's not stupid to avoid being in high crime areas at times when crime is known to be most likely. That's just common sense. But to categorically exclude anyone from anything because they look a certain way that is different from you IS bigotry. There is no other way to describe it, no matter what euphemism you try to apply. Jim (who thinks that everyone not exactly like me or my wife sucks)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Erica, Girlie girl I'm sure. Like I said in another thread, posting your opinion on muscle relaxers can be bad heehee. And I don't want to get tit for tat in this thread. We try and live our lives and improve our character. How you are raising your son is commendable. So get me a beer! LOL.
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