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TOPIC: Would you ever give a cert as a consolation prize
Created by: WildMainePussy
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Sure the purpose is to say you've met them...and all that but if it wasn't quite the experience you had hoped for, would you still give one?

Only asking as I have seen one given to a lady where a friend told me about the evening and it wasn't complimentary.

So I'm wondering if some certs are "bye-bye...."

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you do not always need to give a glorifying certification, if we have fun we certify but if it was not the best ,certification does say they are real and gives others a chance to meet them. since we are not all attracted to everyone, they may like them much more so why not give everyone the chance to meet.

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Agreeing w/ Two42 lovers.

We usually cert people we've had some type of play with, but we don't cert everyone. Most of ours are from people we've seen a lot more than once. And hope to see again!

We will not cert people with whom we've had a negative experience.

G.

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I have given few certs. It's to those folks who I would meet again. Same with the one's I accepted. It has nothing to do with sex...but that they are real. I would NEVER give a cert..attach my good name to folks who didn't deserve it.

Dzzy...damn...you guys are not sluts... sigh..

I really don't want to do anyone who thinks a lot of certs=busy. I have known some very busy folks. I have been busy compared to many vanilla folks..Duh. Some how being judged for doing exactly what we are here for seems very odd. Let the folks who judge stay home. Give me the experienced folks any day.

M.

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We won't cert someone unless we liked them enough to attach our profile to theirs for everyone to see. (Which is exactly what you are doing when you cert someone - connecting your profile to theirs.) The whole idea of certing someone even though you didn't enjoy their company, and then trash talking them to other swingers seems ironic, to say the least. It reflects very badly on the guy who gave the cert.

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we thought the purpose of certs was to weed out the fakes, freaks, etc. and we cert according to those principles. if we meet u we generally cert u as real. we consider this a a service to others :-)

although we have received some "backlash" from people who thought we were "sluts" because we have more than a few certs. but.. we don't care ;-)

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Sure the purpose is to say you've met them...and all that but if it wasn't quite the experience you had hoped for, would you still give one?

Only asking as I have seen one given to a lady where a friend told me about the evening and it wasn't complimentary.

So I'm wondering if some certs are "bye-bye...."

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TOPIC: Would you ever give a cert as a consolation prize