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"After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'"

I would never send or accept the type of cert that was given for the sole purpose of confirming we engaged in sex. Who we play with is our business. Beyond that just because we've played with THEM doesn't mean we are more apt to play with YOU. I hear frequently that so and so are fakes because they refused to meet or met and refused sex. Occasionally the very people they speak of we HAVE met and had sex with lol I also hear it tossed about in the lifestyle many are posers, you know those people who show up at parties with no intent on ever having sex....big deal. Returning or not returning an email don't make you real or fake , just for the record. A couple might chose to ignore you and a pervert, cheater , liar or single guy posing as a couple might decide to return your email .

We don't come across many ""fakes" but we also don't generally IM folks with no photos, single males or complete strangers.

People are not fakes just because they have no interest in YOU.

Just saying ,

Mrs Sav

Anniston AL
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If you are a couple you should have pictures of both, if this is for both of you, other couples should see both, people who don't show both usually have something to hide. and since your still in the "Flinstones era" and from the one pic you do have so far, all i can say is.

Yabba dabba doo! ;)

Philadelphia PA
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"We think about 5-10% are real. If someone will not reply to a email or message they are not real to us."

We try to answer emails, but if it's obviously someone who hasn't read our profile, I've given up even with the polite "no thanks".

Not sure how certs destroy your privacy on here - unless you just don't want anyone to know who you have met/played with?

Las Vegas NV
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AFT even that doesn't work in today's world, there is always an email trail somewhere.

Philadelphia PA
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I would think someone finding out your on a swing site would be worse than people on the SLS knowing you have a cert. privacy wise anyway.

Philadelphia PA
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We think about 5-10% are real. If someone will not reply to a email or message they are not real to us.

Newborn GA
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Smart, I suggest you attend a couple of Meet & Greets. Good was to meet some real couples in a low pressure environment. Kinda like window shopping...great pic, by the way

Pottstown PA
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We are fairly new to the lifestyle so when we are a little hesitant people assume we are bs'ig. We are just a little anxious about getting into something with a couple we barely know. I want to make sure they are D&D free as awell as personally compatible.

Fairfax VA
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does that mean you'll only get to meet people 10% of the time.

Philadelphia PA
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Well, just for the record, my wife HATES chatting with people she doesn't know online (and refuses to cam as well), so we're not sure if that's led some couples to believe we're "fake" or not. But those who have met us know we're the real-deal.

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