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TOPIC: What percent of couples on sls are real
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nothing like a 4-way telephone conversation on Google voice to separate real couples from the deceivers and fakes.

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We’re cynical optimists here. As many have said, the gut feeling in a lot of cases is the couple you were emailing and making plans with—but suddenly had to cancel at the last minute—aren’t what they seem. But we’ve always expressed the benefit of the doubt and, just like a lot of other activities that conflict with dispassioned logic, enjoy the feeling that ‘maybe this one was real too!’ After all, how many of us buy the occasional lottery ticket despite knowing the odds are against us? So in each case, we hope it really was the one in ten/hundred couple that is as real as we are but just couldn’t make things work. Perhaps we’ll see them at a party or get together at a later date? Another way of looking at it is how much fun was it to believe in Santa, and what were the jaded years like before you had kids and re-believed? It’s your choice, I guess. Now, if there’re any elves out there that want to play this week... ;)

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I'd say a majority of people who are paid members with certs are "real". I've only been on here 3 months or so but I've met alot of great couples so far as a single guy and all went very well! Have also played with some free members who can't leave certs. When it comes to free members, some of the profiles seem kind of shady but I'm assuming it's because they didn't put much effort into their profile since they just wanted to check the site out.

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My husband and I have had a number of meet ups with SLS couples and have swapped with a few. No one offered to give us a cert, and I think only one of them had a cert. To me it means nothing other than giving a way for others to see who you've been with or met. Not a fan of kiss & tell.

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Funny but really true to life topic lol . I assume anyone on the internet is a frustrated wanting-sex male whether married or young boy . I'm sure many people who read my profile assume that is what I am . When they meet me at parties that's what they tell me anyway lol. Bottom line , if you use this as the only means to meet people you are taking your chances . If you really want to meet people you need to put yourself out there in some other way . I can't give you percetages , I'm sure that varies by region , Be brave and good luck

Allentown PA
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We've met a number of "real" couples here who had no certs.

Farmers Branch TX
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We've played with a few couples that are free members, so they can't leave us a cert.

Toledo OH
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Also, we've played with more than one couple on here. However, one of them let their membership lapse and didn't renew. Because of this, they said they couldn't leave a cert.

So, it's possible that some people with the free accounts are real as well, but just haven't/can't leave certs for each other.

Waco TX
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What are certs? We use mints but not certs?

Marietta OH
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as a newer to this site couple.. we give certs to those we feel we want to.. We accept certs from those we want to... we do read certs but it is the conversation that gets us hooked not a "certain type of Cert"... We could care less about a cert because just because one couple/person enjoyed the time...doesn't mean all do...

We have no expectations on here or at clubs..we know we will have sex with each other(my wife and I) no matter what happens with anyone else. It is THAT relaxed attitude that leads to no disappointments..

as for "realness"... It seems to us you can tell who really is interested by a few words and emails...

have a great day!!

Lancaster OH
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