Help
FORUMS › Successful Swinging › Finding Playmates › What percent of couples on sls are real
TOPIC: What_percent_of_couples_on_sls_are_real
« Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  ... 12  Next »
31 to 40 of 115
User Details are only visible to members.
@ronandjenn, felt the same way sometimes. But we have met a few really nice couples on the site - and we've gotten better at recognizing red flags in profiles/instant messages. But if I had to guess just based on the ones I looked at, I'd say 20-30% of profiles are legit.

Rego Park NY
Username hidden
(11 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Great topic.... We're convinced the number is closer to 3%.... In the last two years we have sent out well over 200 initial contact emails.... Maybe 3% of those we got a reply.... Maybe, I'm being generous actually.... It's more like 3 emails forget percentages,... The blow offs and flakes along with a lack of replies has us wondering why we even bother with this site.... Are we alone here ?

Westbury NY
Username hidden
(40 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
From my experience... I would say about 20-30 %

Riverdale GA
Username hidden
(239 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
My bad, I meant to say, 18.6% (I think) ;^/

Tramp

Alpharetta GA
Username hidden
(5759 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Precisely 27.3% (I think). ;^/

Tramp

Alpharetta GA
Username hidden
(5759 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Fantastic topic. My husband has said that he thinks probably 50% of people on here are guys who are on here with out wife knowledge. I am not sure what real stats might be but I think there is a lot of lookyloos and peopel who think they want this but aren't sure. That is ok I guess. Wish it was a little more like other forums were you could like and talk under posts. Would make the " getting to know you " part easier.

Hockley TX
Username hidden
(24 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
In my reply I will make a distinction between your definition of "real" as in people who actually meet and play, vs real as in living, breathing human beings.

I have tested out a number of other sites and am convinced that on some of them some of the profiles do not represent living, breathing human beings but rather are fake profiles put on by the site. One site in particular convinced me that almost no profiles in my area consisted of live people, as their automatic e-mail replies had no connection to anything I wrote to them. In contrast, I believe the profiles on SLS represent living people.

Turning now to your question about how many of these living people are "real" swingers that actually meet and play, I suspect that many people on the site are intrigued by the idea of playing, will chat or e-mail with others, may even attend meet and greets or go to clubs, but for various reasons haven't played with others.

The challenge is to find those who will play - either those who have reliably played in the past, or though new would play if given a good opportunity. I tend to see how long the profile has been on the site, read the profile carefully, see if they are going to any events, and yes, look for certs.

I don’t believe certs need to reveal intimate play details, but certainly can indicate whether someone has played with them or not. For those of us who really are here to play, why the hesitation to admit we played with someone? You can pick and choose whose certs you want to post. If you don’t want to admit having played with certain people, or don’t like the cert they’ve written simply don’t approve it being posted.

But a few posts indicating you’ve actually played do convey that you are an active swinger who actually shows up. I don’t think 20 or even 10 such posts are needed. I have four and that should certainly indicate that I do indeed show up and play.

As far as writing certs, I believe in asking someone whether they’d like a cert. If so, I suggest writing it then e-mailing it to them for approval before sending it on through the process. They might catch a spelling or grammar error, or suggest altering it a bit if it is too graphic for their taste.

Little Creek DE
Username hidden
(20 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
If you think you need certs to determine real from fake, then their is a problem We won't do certs or accept them. Why, who what and where's are no one else's business. No need to kiss and tell. Privacy, how would you explain to your coworker, boss, in-laws, etc that didn't know you were into the lifestyle that you had great adult sexy fun in the bedroom with another couple..

This doesn't make me fake. Bit it is pretty easy to weed out the fake ones by reading profiles, viewing the pics, making contact and viewing the responses. If you can't use coon sense to determine fake from real, and need 20+ certs to believe someone is real, maybe you need to examine your level of intelligence. I read a few of the original posters certs. The first few said only m&g. I had to read on to find a "real cert". I also read the profile and viewed the pics. I felt that based on the information put onto the profile and the pics gave.me reason to believe they were not fakes.

Monongahela PA
Username hidden
(273 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Getting response mail is rare and most of the time when we do it leads to know where. On more than one occasion we've been stood up by guys who have one excuse after another. Out of the few that we've met two were way older than their profile said and the last guy showed up like a slob and the wife said his breath was horrible. He meets us at this bar with anticipation of a threesome and doesn't even offer to buy my wife a drink. We just chalked it up to experience and a lesson learned. A few months back we did meet a nice lady for a threesome and had a good time except she said she was bi but wouldn't go down. This site hasn't worked out like we hoped but were hanging in there

Shelby Township MI
Username hidden
(2 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
We believe there are a lot of couples that are real....but they are real picky also looking for perfect matches. Don't get me wrong no one should take one for the team, we all have some kind of standards but we all should be a little flexible with them. My wife likes guys that are around 6ft, she doesn't want to play with any guy that is shorter then herself but if he is super cute (Bon Jovi style) sporting a nice cut 8incher she will make an exception. People need to make good descriptive profiles and people searching need to read the profiles and not just the popups. Also have a little flexibility for who you are looking for and some respect for the ones that send you an e-mail and answer them.

Saddle Brook NJ
Username hidden
(288 posts)
« Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  ... 12  Next »
31 to 40 of 115
TOPIC: What percent of couples on sls are real
This site does not contain sexually explicit images as defined in 18 U.S.C. 2256.
Accordingly, neither this site nor the contents contained herein are covered by the record-keeping provisions of 18 USC 2257(a)-(c).
Disclaimer: This website contains adult material. You must be over 18 to enter or 21 where applicable by law.
All Members are over 18 years of age.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy
 
Copyright © 1998-2016 DashBoardHosting, LLC. All Rights Reserved.