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TOPIC: What percent of couples on sls are real
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I pinched her this morning, she's real. Haven't pinched myself yet so can't comment about me.

We often meet couples at MG's, parties or clubs then corespond via SLS for future encounters. Occasionally we meet someone through SLS but prefer initial meets through a group setting.

Maybe look at your local events and sign up. Send out a couple "howdy's" to others who've signed up and introduce yourself. "We saw you are attending the who has the biggest *** party and would like to say hello, we've opened our pictures for you, hope to get a chance to meet!"

Easy enough to be pleasantand inviting andif nothingpans out you can still do each other.

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Were still new to this site and no certs because its not easy finding real couples. There are some fakes and flakes out there. We have had bad experience with flakes lately. It is what it is I guess. lol But we know that there are real couples out there it just takes time to meet one.


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There are a fair amount of fakers on here and We'd place them at well over 50% when you include no pics no certs, short profiles.

We like the cert system. We have found that 9 out of 10 no cert profiles either are fakers or at bare minimum don't want to meet and wow never accomplish getting certed even after years of being on here.

We do not look at the certs as kiss and tell. We look a them as swinger security and dramatically increases our personal identity security.

We don't consider a profile sufficiently certed until at least two paying members have certed it. We know a lot of people from parties and everybody who is real has this accomplished in short order. So we feel based on our experience most understand the value it serves and protects us from fakes.

We do not exclude no certed profiles but they must provide clear pics. If the pics are intriguing to us we do require another step before we show our privates. Its a simple one. Please snap a pic, showing your faces and hands holding a sign with your profile name on it.

Pretty hard for a faker to go back to someone they stole pics from and get that snapshot! They either go away or prove themselves and that is exactly what we are looking for. we have a quick reply where we politely state our case, the whys and so its quick to use.

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Just speaking from our experience on here. We've had pretty good luck meeting couples one on one as well at events. We figure out the fakes & wannabees pretty quickly.

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been on here for three months and have not met one couple.


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We would really not like that at all. We, personally, don't accept any certs that mention play at all, because we don't kiss and tell. It's one thing to say, "hey this is a great couple. check them out." It's another to say "Jump on this used car, no treads left of tires, and only previously fucked by 50 couples at once." We are very selective on who we meet and play with but, people are still judgmental. So, we would rather not encourage that.

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About all certs are good for is verifying that people are alive and breathing. You never really know until you meet.

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Quite a lot of profiles on here to put down a realistic percentage of real vs fake. We look for members who have certs primarily and if free members are willing to voice verify and can show us a couple of face pics then that works for us too.

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We removed our certs because we had so many people cherry picking and people running their mouths. It was a privacy thing. But on the other hand it is a nice way to tell if a couples for real. I guess it's a catch 22.

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We have been in the lifestyle and this site less than two months. We have met 8 couples, one house party, went to one club event, played 'really soft' at the house party because that was all that was done, and less soft at the club. We full swap/group played with three couples. We have no certs.

Two of the couples we full swapped/group played with had mechanical issues and well never mentioned the existing problems before they met us or agreed to play with us.

A SM was going to meet us for a MFM and at the last minute invited a female from a couple we sorta played with (her boyfriend couldn't get it up, anxiety issues) and then she needed a ride (she was two hours away). He went to get her and then after we arrived at the place agreed to at the time agrred too, he was still two hours away from us because she changed her mind. WE never met him that night, we went on to other people that night.

All the folks (couples and singles) we met and/or played with including the parties and club event all have certs. None have certed us.

We can't be more real, less drama free, and more willing to play and have put up with their dramas and still no certs.

Our experience demonstrates that certs mean nothing really. It does not mean you are drama free as you state. It does not mean that you can play when in the moment, those pesky mechanical issues. It does not mean that your profile is truthful, if it was, we would have known your age is a huge lie (11 years wrong), your weight is significantly more than you stated, you have ED, and you make other arrangements that fall through and still expect us to be waiting, and you still showed up thinking we wouldn't notice?

I know the big thing on this site for some people is CERTS ARE THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS or 'no cert, it didn't happen'. But you know what, that isn't true. Certs don't make a person tell the truth, be real in person, or really anything other than someone gave them one for whatever reason, maybe to get one in return.

I look at it the same as twitter followers and facebook friends and like, just something to collect but really has no bearing on me as a real person.

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