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We've been fortunate tonever have a no-show in our experience. We've met couples at MG's, clubs, or one on one. We voice verify to make sure we're dealing with a real couple before we meet. Several times after exchanging afew e-mails pics, agreeing to meet,when we bring up the phone call, we don't hear from the "couple" again. Most likely a single or married guy running a scam or a poser couple.

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After a couple of years here, we seem to be having more luck meeting other couples at meet and greets and parties. There are a fair number of no shows when arranging for a one-on-one meet, so if we arrange a meeting at a group event, and the other couple doesn't show (which has happened), no big deal.

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My husband and I have been swinging for more than 7 years now. We have been off and on with different so called swinging sites. We were most recently at SDC when we lived in Miami and had well over 30 certs at one time and dropped the account and started over and so on. And now live in Charlotte. The reason I bring this up is that certs or validations can be deceiving and as we travel through the profiles here we see a lot of certs by people who have met at a party or event ("It was nice meeting Bill and Nancy, hope to talk to them again.") That's not a swinger's validation. We've been to clubs and events and seen couples sitting around playing grab ass and wanting you to think they are sexually mature. Frankly, I have been to vanilla parties and had more sex than at some of these meet and greets. And if you follow the thread between all the connected certs we find that most here, at least in the Charlotte area are not swingers, even soft swingers.

After many years of trial and error as well as frustration and a lot of hard work we don't believe that 10% of the couples profiles are either genuine or truthful. Many are married men that are wishful thinkers, many are single men that put up a bogus couple's profile in hopes of exchanging photos or fooling a couple. After 5 years of being on SDC in Miami we knew exactly who the swingers were and who the fakes were. It may have beensomewhat skewed in Miami but we think in both ways. There are a lot of latin swingers in Miami but we noticed the Miami Velvet affect. It was advertised as a swinger club but mostly filled with posers and many of these people posted profiles for attention. These were the hot little latina/macho boy couples that liked showing off but there was no way in hell that she was going to be allowed to touch another man. So they did have "real" profiles, however they were not swingers.

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I pinched her this morning, she's real. Haven't pinched myself yet so can't comment about me.

We often meet couples at MG's, parties or clubs then corespond via SLS for future encounters. Occasionally we meet someone through SLS but prefer initial meets through a group setting.

Maybe look at your local events and sign up. Send out a couple "howdy's" to others who've signed up and introduce yourself. "We saw you are attending the who has the biggest *** party and would like to say hello, we've opened our pictures for you, hope to get a chance to meet!"

Easy enough to be pleasantand inviting andif nothingpans out you can still do each other.

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Were still new to this site and no certs because its not easy finding real couples. There are some fakes and flakes out there. We have had bad experience with flakes lately. It is what it is I guess. lol But we know that there are real couples out there it just takes time to meet one.

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There are a fair amount of fakers on here and We'd place them at well over 50% when you include no pics no certs, short profiles.

We like the cert system. We have found that 9 out of 10 no cert profiles either are fakers or at bare minimum don't want to meet and wow never accomplish getting certed even after years of being on here.

We do not look at the certs as kiss and tell. We look a them as swinger security and dramatically increases our personal identity security.

We don't consider a profile sufficiently certed until at least two paying members have certed it. We know a lot of people from parties and everybody who is real has this accomplished in short order. So we feel based on our experience most understand the value it serves and protects us from fakes.

We do not exclude no certed profiles but they must provide clear pics. If the pics are intriguing to us we do require another step before we show our privates. Its a simple one. Please snap a pic, showing your faces and hands holding a sign with your profile name on it.

Pretty hard for a faker to go back to someone they stole pics from and get that snapshot! They either go away or prove themselves and that is exactly what we are looking for. we have a quick reply where we politely state our case, the whys and so its quick to use.

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Just speaking from our experience on here. We've had pretty good luck meeting couples one on one as well at events. We figure out the fakes & wannabees pretty quickly.

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been on here for three months and have not met one couple.

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We would really not like that at all. We, personally, don't accept any certs that mention play at all, because we don't kiss and tell. It's one thing to say, "hey this is a great couple. check them out." It's another to say "Jump on this used car, no treads left of tires, and only previously fucked by 50 couples at once." We are very selective on who we meet and play with but, people are still judgmental. So, we would rather not encourage that.

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About all certs are good for is verifying that people are alive and breathing. You never really know until you meet.

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