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TOPIC: What_percent_of_couples_on_sls_are_real
Created by: jandact
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as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple? We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious. By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety.

For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%. We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs. So one out of five couples are serious swingers??? Is that right???

Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much.

After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'

Thoughts?

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Okay Ncal with that definition, my guess is that there are more than 10% real here. But I've not delved into figuring that out. I can't imagine any would pay for photos, with free porn all over. But who knows? I did explain on another thread that I attribute some % of non responses to messages sent as being due to fake profiles. So there's something to what you say.

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Real is very simple, you are on this site for sex with other people. You meet other people with the intent of having sex with them if the chemistry is their for everyone.

Fake is you are on here for social reasons and not for sex. You may meet other people for the thrill of it but you never intend to have sex with them.

Many profiles that are paid are all about the thrill of getting emails and looking at others pics. And doing other things with those pics.

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Very real here

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Oh really? Is *that* what fake is to some? Not tapping anything that moves? Then I am fake as it gets. Like others here, i am extremely "selective" about playmates. Life is too short not to be, IMO.

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I'm perfectly happy being fake according to Ncal's definition! Nope! I'm very picky with who I play with.

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Well i was thinking we had a difference of definitions at play (pun intended).

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MoT, in Ncal's view (from previous posts), there are very few (if any) *real* folks out here.

Unless you are willing to walk into a room full of naked folks, get naked yourself, and then have sex with any and/or everyone in the room...you're not real.

By Ncal's standard, Lady and I are certainly not real, and I hope you aren't either. Lol

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Really? I am just surprised. How are you defining "real?" Like, they have and even pay for a lifetime profile, lets say, but never swing? Or set up, a free profile and never act on it? I guess it depends on how u define it.

I am curious as to what % of SLS folk are paying members?

And, is it safe to assume, in your view, that lifetime members are real? I would definitely assume this, as what would be the point otherwise to pay $150?

10%?!? And youre saying that the fake % is then same here as on CL? I get such a low % on standard dating sites, and especially that sex affair site that got hacked a bit back, but 10% here? Seems low.

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now living in Vegas about 10% of the people are real on SLS. Craigslist seem to be about the same. But on SLS more people are into couples dating rather then meet for a drink and then go play.

I think that swinging as a whole is less and less real people as each generation gets more and more risk adverse.

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Right. What you noted about the other play part er is part of what i was stating.

As i noted ( and i think that we agree), none of what i noted is hard science, and i hold the ideas loosely. That is to state that any of a miriad of other factors may factor in to prompt memtomreachmout, or respond positively to a message.

My concept that "like marries like" and "like plays with like," overall and roughly speaking, is still true, i think. But i factor in when there are times where one spouse may "take ine for the team" (sadly), or some other issue may be at p,ay (pun intended)...

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