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TOPIC: What percent of couples on sls are real

Created by: jandact Original Starting post for this thread:
as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple? We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious. By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety. For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%. We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs. So one out of five couples are serious swingers??? Is that right??? Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much. After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.' Thoughts?

Created by: jandact
Original Starting post for this thread:

as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple?   We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious.  By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety.

For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%.  We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs.   So one out of five couples are serious swingers???  Is that right???

Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much.

After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'

Thoughts?

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User Details are only visible to members.	We've met a number of "real" couples here who had no certs.
Carrollton TX			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've played with a few couples that are free members, so they can't leave us a cert.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (41 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There are a lot of fakes on here mostly if not all are men,married or single. But there are also a lot of real people here, just because they don't want to fuck us doesn't make them fake.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (1052 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Also, we've played with more than one couple on here. However, one of them let their membership lapse and didn't renew. Because of this, they said they couldn't leave a cert. So, it's possible that some people with the free accounts are real as well, but just haven't/can't leave certs for each other.
Waco TX			Username hidden (29 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What are certs? We use mints but not certs?
Martinsburg WV			Username hidden (11 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	as a newer to this site couple.. we give certs to those we feel we want to.. We accept certs from those we want to... we do read certs but it is the conversation that gets us hooked not a "certain type of Cert"... We could care less about a cert because just because one couple/person enjoyed the time...doesn't mean all do... We have no expectations on here or at clubs..we know we will have sex with each other(my wife and I) no matter what happens with anyone else. It is THAT relaxed attitude that leads to no disappointments.. as for "realness"... It seems to us you can tell who really is interested by a few words and emails... have a great day!!
Lancaster OH			Username hidden (124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are real and although we don't swap (we are looking for a bi female for an ongoing 3some) we have had some exciting experiences due to SLS. We don't currently have any certs, nor have we given them. I have read several profiles and admit I have been amazed at who some couples have been with. I don't judge people's preferences. One good thing about reading certs, we have found a few more people to either be friends or play with lol.
Cordova TN			Username hidden (35 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"But to the couple in our bed on a sat night.....We're pretty darn real" We think you're real, and we haven't been in your bed on Saturday night ;)
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1516 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As an addition. It would be nice in a perfect world if people stated their intentions more clear in their profile. A new couple just toying with the idea. A couple just here for erotic chat or online play A couple that just likes to swap pics and cam All acceptable reasons to be on the site. But they can be frustrating to a "real play" couple if they carry on for quite a while and THEN find out the other couple has no intention of ever leaving their keyboard.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (385 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	On this site, we believe most couples are real. Real, meaning, not computer generated fake profiles like you find on other sites. Real means different things to different people. I think almost all couple profiles have real people behind them but their intentions vary. We dont go by certs. We have played in this game for years and we dont put certs on our profile generally. We dont like to advertise. Some couple profiles are just single men. Theyre still real, but different intentions. Others are just exploring the idea and may never meet anyone. Theyre still real. Others are called fakes because they are not interested in YOU. In our case. We're real. We're really a couple. It really is BOTH of us that participate on here. We really do meet. We really do play. But the number of people we play with vs. the number of people who email us is minuscule. So to hundreds of people that email us that we dont get back to or we dont set up to meet.......They probably refer to us as "fakes" But to the couple in our bed on a sat night.....We're pretty darn real
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (385 post)

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