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TOPIC: What_percent_of_couples_on_sls_are_real
Created by: jandact
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as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple? We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious. By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety.

For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%. We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs. So one out of five couples are serious swingers??? Is that right???

Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much.

After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'

Thoughts?

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Eskimo, it's probably because you're only looking to play with a female.

Harrisburg PA
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I think maybe 20%. The rest are all looking for Ken and Barbie. Or they aren't serious. Also after you answer all there questions, like an interview. You get no where. I feel like we have spent our money on a lot of nothing.

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We tend to find the real couples want to meet relatively soon. I couldn't really guess the percentage of fake couples but we have ran into a few. Mainly it's the male and you never hear from the female half.

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"A lot of times we see a couple we want to contact and we see explicit certs from other couples we would not engage with. It throws everthing to question."

Exactly what does that mean? Are you saying that if a couple has played with someone who is unattractive to you, that makes the couple you're considering unattractive also?

Or did I misunderstand what you wrote?

Tramp

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We're not big on certs. Our opinion is less is better to also include the information in the cert. A lot of times we see a couple we want to contact and we see explicit certs from other couples we would not engage with. It throws everthing to question. We have met real couples without certs and have declined certs from couples, even if they were just confirming we are real. Having certs can have advantages and disadvantaves depending on your level of participation you want in the lifestyle.

Hartsdale NY
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we are very real, however, we don't swap, none the less, we have been tons of people from SLS, we use SLS to stay in touch with people we have already met, and put very little purpose in initial exchanges where we haven't already met, better to get out to the clubs, parties BBQs, events etc and introduce yourself, the hot dates portion of this site is the best way to make casual acquaintance with folks that often times leads to more.

Huntington NY
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We are real, but no one answers us

Arlington NY
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I can think of much more fun things to do in the rain ;-)

Westbury NY
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R&J: We're light Motel 6 - we'll leave the light on for ya...but buyer beware, arrive on Monday and you're helping unload 2 moving trucks (YES TWO!) in the rain :( (I knew the house we're buying was cursed!)

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On our way :-)

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