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TOPIC: What_percent_of_couples_on_sls_are_real
Created by: jandact
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as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple? We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious. By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety.

For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%. We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs. So one out of five couples are serious swingers??? Is that right???

Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much.

After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'

Thoughts?

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There is a lot of "tude" here, past swingers, swinger wannabes, and all other potential options. The only thing which offends me is those who draw a line in the sand and won't accept that in life, there is good, bad, and exceptions. Chill, loosen up, and enjoy the moment without prejudging. Life is a journey, enjoy It!

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I've been wondering this since joining. I'm new to the lifestyle, so it's good to read everyone's replies here. Thanks for sharing.

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The couples I've met are all real. Most do not believe in giving or accepting certs. This does not make them fake. What I find fack is bi men pretended to be straight. I have met and played with several bi men, all without giving or accepting a cert. Everyone's siituation is different, you find something that works you stick with it. I think for the most part SLS has the most real people.

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There are real profiles with not-so-real people, there are profiles that are not real at all, and then there are just straight out real idiots.

The art of knowing which one you are dealing with at a point in time is the real trick.

Lebanon KS
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Okay Ncal with that definition, my guess is that there are more than 10% real here. But I've not delved into figuring that out. I can't imagine any would pay for photos, with free porn all over. But who knows? I did explain on another thread that I attribute some % of non responses to messages sent as being due to fake profiles. So there's something to what you say.

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Real is very simple, you are on this site for sex with other people. You meet other people with the intent of having sex with them if the chemistry is their for everyone.

Fake is you are on here for social reasons and not for sex. You may meet other people for the thrill of it but you never intend to have sex with them.

Many profiles that are paid are all about the thrill of getting emails and looking at others pics. And doing other things with those pics.

Las Vegas NV
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Very real here

Douglas GA
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Oh really? Is *that* what fake is to some? Not tapping anything that moves? Then I am fake as it gets. Like others here, i am extremely "selective" about playmates. Life is too short not to be, IMO.

Spartanburg SC
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I'm perfectly happy being fake according to Ncal's definition! Nope! I'm very picky with who I play with.

Harrisburg PA
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Well i was thinking we had a difference of definitions at play (pun intended).

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TOPIC: What percent of couples on sls are real
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