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TOPIC: What_percent_of_couples_on_sls_are_real
Created by: jandact
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as in what percent of couples have actually swapped with another couple? We finally got exasperated with people who have no certs so we changed our profile to say if you have no 'real' certs then you have to convince us you are serious. By 'real' certs we mean certs that say 'we met this couple and actually played with them' and not the 'we met so and so at a meet and greet and had a nice chat' variety.

For what it's worth we searched for couples in our area and of the first 200 who came up 55 had certs or 27.5%. We did not look at the actual certs people had to try to figure out how many were 'real' but we are sure that some of those couples have the 'we met and chatted' variety meaning probably closer to 20% of couples here have what we consider 'real' certs. So one out of five couples are serious swingers??? Is that right???

Now we understand some people do not give and accept certs but we doubt that they would change the number very much.

After we get some feedback on this post we are going to suggest to sls that they split certs into two categories with the second being certs that say 'we met and played with this couple.'

Thoughts?

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If you think you need certs to determine real from fake, then their is a problem We won't do certs or accept them. Why, who what and where's are no one else's business. No need to kiss and tell. Privacy, how would you explain to your coworker, boss, in-laws, etc that didn't know you were into the lifestyle that you had great adult sexy fun in the bedroom with another couple..

This doesn't make me fake. Bit it is pretty easy to weed out the fake ones by reading profiles, viewing the pics, making contact and viewing the responses. If you can't use coon sense to determine fake from real, and need 20+ certs to believe someone is real, maybe you need to examine your level of intelligence. I read a few of the original posters certs. The first few said only m&g. I had to read on to find a "real cert". I also read the profile and viewed the pics. I felt that based on the information put onto the profile and the pics gave.me reason to believe they were not fakes.

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Getting response mail is rare and most of the time when we do it leads to know where. On more than one occasion we've been stood up by guys who have one excuse after another. Out of the few that we've met two were way older than their profile said and the last guy showed up like a slob and the wife said his breath was horrible. He meets us at this bar with anticipation of a threesome and doesn't even offer to buy my wife a drink. We just chalked it up to experience and a lesson learned. A few months back we did meet a nice lady for a threesome and had a good time except she said she was bi but wouldn't go down. This site hasn't worked out like we hoped but were hanging in there

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We believe there are a lot of couples that are real....but they are real picky also looking for perfect matches. Don't get me wrong no one should take one for the team, we all have some kind of standards but we all should be a little flexible with them. My wife likes guys that are around 6ft, she doesn't want to play with any guy that is shorter then herself but if he is super cute (Bon Jovi style) sporting a nice cut 8incher she will make an exception. People need to make good descriptive profiles and people searching need to read the profiles and not just the popups. Also have a little flexibility for who you are looking for and some respect for the ones that send you an e-mail and answer them.

Saddle Brook NJ
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We are in N California and have been swingers since 2002. We belonged to a private group that was the only private group of full swap swingers in the San Fransisco bay area.

The requirements to get into the group was to play with one of the member couples have a good time and play at the first party you where invited to.

The San Fransisco bay area has 10 million people..the largest party we had was 35 couples which filled the house..we had a member ship list of around 350 couples.

The group now will have parties of around 10 to 15 couples at the most.

Very few couples are into full swap out of any population, our experience with SLS is around 5 to 10% of the profiles are real and about 25% of those are people we would play with...the reason why is i am married to one of those rare straight women in the lifestyle...most of the couples seem to want a bi woman as part of the couple.

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You can't always tell what kind of health problems someone has by looking at them. I had a stroke at 36 years old at 128 lbs. my grandfather ran a 4.5 40 yard dash the year he had a heart attack. He void have been an Olympian when he younger.

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we dont play with people if they are in that bad of shape...lol

Las Vegas NV
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PLC, welcome to the forums!

i would say it's probably a bad idea to hand a cialis or viagra to anyone that it wasn't prescribed for. a really bad idea, IMHO. way too much potential for things to go wrong health wise.

YMMV, and that's ok.

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I feel your frustration, we have all had to deal with many persons that never follow through for what ever reason. We choose to not have certs as we both have very public careers. We might be able to explain the profile if someone discovered us and wanted to harm us in some manner, but it would be much harder to explain certifications. So as a matter discretion we choose to not allow certifications to be posted. Over the years we have "ran" into persons we work with or know at local events. Our choice to be cautious. BTW- the people we have ran into have never been a problem:) PLC

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For sophiasays69 and others who have had to deal with newbies with men who could not get it up..bring Viagra!!!!!!!!

Have the guy chew 50mgs and he will be hard as a rock in 15 minutes. Great for group play and for men who are seeing their wife with another man for the first time. That is the most beautiful erotic distracting thing a man can see..kills his erection.

We have been playing for 12 years and that happened to me to first time....and the other woman was drop dead sexy.

Las Vegas NV
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We have been on this site for a few years, we also believe that about 20% is actually being a bit generous. But its not just because there are people on here that arent real, you have a mixture of "chat bots" (computer generated profiles) or other people get into a click, they dont want to deal with anyone outside it. I wish SLS had a feature where they can just hide their profiles....wait there is one...I wish they would do it.

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