I don't care if "Some Guy" are a total ass.

Some "guys" dig that...I suppose.

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-Tig

tonybuffalo2...

We do not invite married females playing alone to play with us, just like we do not invite married males playing along to play with us.

When we do invite singles to play with us, they are just that...SINGLE. Single means no wife, girlfriend, or SO.

Just like Scottyd said...cheating is cheating.

Heather

Tony,

we absolutely would NOT entertain a married woman swinging alone any more than we would entertain a married man swinging alone. Cheating is cheating.

The only caveat to that would be if a married woman and my wife decided to have a "girls" day and her husband also knew abou tit.

readytoplay,
whats wrong with it is that it is a guy, no woman to be had be the others. if it was a married woman, they would have no problem with it. now the couples here will say it is a big problem, but they will just look the other way. just another double standard. it is just the way it is.

welcum to the forums...and very well said. You two are delicious.
sassy

I do not judge, sex is for pleasure when swinging and pleasure should be available to all. We are all here to enjoy life so enjoy with everyone

Well that works for you. And you are aware of what's happening. Glad it works for you. Curious to know..did i understand you right, you never play together? always apart?

sassy

Bottom line ... swinging is about recreational sex with others 'with the full knowledge and consent of your spouse or SO'. No knowledge/consent, no swinging...it's Cheating. Most cpls don't want or need the drama/risks associated with playing with a cheater. How does a married man who Really Does have his spouse's knowledge/consent get that across to others? With honesty and patience. There are so many game players out there that it's very difficult to expect people to take someone at their word. Make sure that your spouse is available to talk with anyone who might be interested. Of course, people may assume that it's not really your spouse and refuse to get involved. Not a thing you can do about it except move on. It's all about Honesty and Transparency. If someone even Thinks there's a hint of dishonesty associated with you, all you're going to see of them is their dust. JnD

Nothing wrong with married men swinging alone...sometimes their wife knows and approves, sometimes she doesn't. As for me/us, we prefer not to get involved with that, because we can't really know for sure that he actually has that approval. And we don't really need that kind of deception or drama (or intended drama if she finds out and goes ballistic). So, that said, we really appreciate the guys who are honest about it. Maybe someday, I would change my mind about that preference, but for now, that's where it stands. Now, I do not judge those who are married and play single. They have their reasons and it's probably pretty intriguing and exciting. Also for those they play with. So, everyone on here is not a judge and jury, so play on, play safe, and have a great time! G.

The problem with a married man swinging alone is that old proverbial question---Does your wife "know" you are doing this?- It's hard for me to wrap my mind around swinging with a married man for two reasons 1)my husband left me for another woman 2)I'd hate to be like that woman and know I'm infringing on her very existance. It's a different ball game though if you actually meet the wife and she gives the "ok".