What is wrong with Married men swinging alone: Swingers Discussion 707531072

165
What is wrong with Married men swinging alone: Swingers Discussion 707531072

Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

TOPIC: What is wrong with Married men swinging alone

GoTo Page: Less ... 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15

Start

72 to 81 of 144

End

User Details are only visible to members.	From Wikipedia: Although the definition of "adultery" differs in nearly every legal system, the common theme is sexual relations outside of marriage, in one form or another. For example, New York defines an adulterer as a person who "engages in sexual intercourse with another person at a time when he has a living spouse, or the other person has a living spouse."North Carolina defines adultery as when any man and woman "lewdly and lasciviously associate, bed and cohabit together. "Minnesota defines adultery as: "when a married woman has sexual intercourse with a man other than her husband, whether married or not, both are guilty of adultery". Adultery was known in earlier times by the legalistic term "criminal conversation" (another term, alienation of affection, is used when one spouse deserts the other for a third person). The term originates not from adult, which is from Latin a-dolescere, to grow up, mature, a combination of a, "to", dolere, "work", and the processing combound sc), but from the Latin ad-ulterare (to commit adultery, adulterate/falsify, a combination of ad, "at", and ulter, "above", "beyond", "opposite", meaning "on the other side of the bond of marriage").
Pismo Beach CA			Username hidden (302 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ok let me get this stright??? Adultery is defined as Extramarital sex OK. So I guss if a husben and wife agrees to both have sex with other people then it is just sex? (seems to me to be still extramarital sex only people have agreeded that it is ok) Hummmmmmmmm???
Hernando MS			Username hidden (39 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	P and I don't agree on this. I don't feel comfortable about having a married man over for mfm if his wife doesn't know. She feels that if a man is cheating on his wife it's THEIR problem, not ours. What do we do when we disagree about anything in swinging? As always, the one least comfortable gets to exercise veto power. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Original Starting post questions: What is wrong with married men swinging alone? Nothing at all if the married couple are in agreement to do so. Why do women not give us a chance? Same reason they make their choices on swinging with certain couples of solo females, it is a matter of choices based on their values and beliefs. I happen to be one of those married males swinging solo, with wife's blessings. Been together over 30 years and will be till death. Have discussed issue multiple times over several years and are convertible with choice we have made together. key to any type swinging as couple or solo is honesty, and respect of others choices.
Lincoln AL			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Scotty...you flirting wit ME? (first time! ) I really think there has to be a LOT of communication for this to be a "comfortable" thing to do, but I still don't want to be with a deceptive married man. I don't want to be with anyone deceptive, so that rules out several kinds of people...the ones w/ fake pics, the ones with phoney profiles, the marrieds who are posing as singles, the singles who are posings as couples...and the list goes on. Will I rescend that someday? I don't know. For now, there are plenty of fun, sexy, open and honest singles an couples, so we don't have to really worry about lack of partners. Borrow away, what do you have for collateral? Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	shell, I'd play wiht you however you want to.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree completely with bicpl; if the wife in a couple knows the husband is playing with another woman and has given her consent (and vice versa of course) I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. As I have said before, Jay and I are considering this. Although we are still in communication and discussion about this the one thing we have both insisted on is that the other knows who we are with and have given complete consent; if one of us does not like the potential partner we say no and there are no arguments, no questions asked. I know that we have found that most people do not play with couples that play alone unless they already know them; this is because you simply don't have the time to investigate and make sure that this is really someone playing with their spouses consent and not a cheating husband or wife. Shell
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gina, I don't want to make you mine, I just want to borrow you for 2 or 3 hrs.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Adultery is defined as extramarital sex...swinging is within the marriage, and you are not coveting the other person's mate (wanting them to be your own, for example and having the person's mate knocked off, as did King David to get Bathsheba). Frankly, anyone can justify anything they feel they are doing "wrong." We don't think we're doing anything wrong. If we felt we were, then we wouldn't do it, as it would be hurtful, not only to others, but to ourselves. It's what your intentions are, not what your deed are, that are of importance in this area. My spirituality is VERY personal and private and it corresponds nicely with my sexuality...they're all about myself as a loving, giving person. I am at my most mentally, emotionally and physically pure when I am having sex. Those may be seen as mystical, confusing, contradictory statements, but I do know myself well enough to "know what I'm talking about" in reference. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we can and it's not adultry... we're not married. Easy enough huh?
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

GoTo Page: Less ... 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15

Start

72 to 81 of 144

End

TOPIC: What is wrong with Married men swinging alone