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We have talked about it and it really depends on the couple I guess. N would be fine with it as long as she picks and meets the other couple/single. Maybe putting a show on for her? Who knows...hasn't happened yet and we are not actively pursuing it. But there's nothing wrong with such an arrangement if your relationship is strong and you have rules in place. It's all about communication!

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wht is wrong with married men swingin alone u ask???...well i think its GREAT to fine tht person tht can give u wht u r missin in ur marriage...if a married man says hello to u (where ever u r as in person or puter here) and u get a chance to chat with him and then if he tells u tht he is married does tht matter?...well u can say yes or no...i have been with married men a few times in my past...hell my ex ws married when we first met...when this question cums up u have the choice to say yes or no...sum married men is wonderful lovers...not all...sum of them...when u r with a married man its very erotic and hot to have sex with them...u both cant wait until u r both in ea others arms and make love to ea other...tht is hot...knwin wht u both r doin is wht he isnt gettin at home...he is enjoyin every sec of it...and if u r ever involve with a married man...u will stand by him all the way if u have feelins for him...make the time tht u have memorial (?)....

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Everything if your WIFE is not 100% involved and on board without you dragging her into what for her is a pit.

Graduated and moved on. SLS is for the inane.

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azands...that is hot. The fact that it is prearranged by your wife...who must know your own personal preferences well...that's quite a nice arrangement. And something to think about doing (or at LEAST fantasizing about) for my own husband, who travels A LOT but who doesn't play outside our area...yet.

We have a standing agreement for when we're separated by distance that we can play solo as long as it's with someone we've already been with. Now, that works for us so far, but to expand that would take some arranging. We are totally open and honest with each other in every aspect, so there is no room for deception or mistrust, and we would not accept that in our marriage. We didn't find each other at this stage in our lives to do anything to usurp it (I've always wanted to use that word in a sentence!).

It's late, I'm rambling. I do believe to play solo while in a solid marriage, you have to really know what you're doing, and you have to be very open, honest and upfront with each other about every aspect of it.

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On a rare occasion, my lady is out of town for business or family reasons without me. It is not unusual for her to have someone lined up to keep me taken care of during those times.

I get a text saying something like keep Sat. night open. Then Sat. I get an email with instructions as to where to go, and who I am picking up there. Sometimes it's an old friend, sometimes someone I have never met. We do diner and if all clicks, enjoy the evening fully.

While I do not arrange dates on my own, I enjoy these little acts of kindness from my beautiful lady.

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There are quite enough people on here who are NOT cheating...I don't like the karma of playing with a cheating spouse...and don't like to intentionally hurt others, whether the spouse found out or not. It's just basically asking for trouble.

It's easy enough also to find the right person to play with, and yes, women do the same thing, with the same words: must have discretion, daytime hours available, only play alone, etc.

Gina

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You are absolutely correct, cheating is absolutely unacceptable whether it is done by the husband or the wife. Shell


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Well as others have said cheating is wrong, but if you look at the single women, there are a ton of them that say,"must be discreet" "playing alone" or anything else like that and it seems to be accepted. I don't understand it. I met a woman here and after some time found out she was cheating on her huz, stopped seeing her. I don't want a shotgun at my back. Cheating is just wrong.

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Fantaseas I was perving your pics.....the hubby has the most gorgeous eyes, wow!! You are a handsome couple indeed.


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We both think that on a basic level cheating is wrong. We usually classify cheaters on the same level as liars. We understand there are situations that some may be able to justify, but in general we think it is out of bounds and not what swing is all about. Cheaters are usually missing something at home and are too afraid to really address it.

Now on the other hand if one wants to play and the other doesn't, but gives the go ahead, then all is fair game. And we have had just that situation before and it was AWESOME!

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