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I am going to post from the wife's prospective. There is nothing "wrong" with married men playing alone; it is a couple's preference. In our case I can't even say that because if is MY preference. I have, on several occasions, let my husband play alone. I also discovered in doing that that I could not handle it emotionally. I swing with my husband because it is something that we can enjoy TOGETHER and share TOGETHER. I enjoy the experience with him very much. In our case, it was never meant to be an "alone" thing. I have seen too many relationships in the lifestyle fall apart because the "swinging alone," turned into a relationship. It works very well for some couples but I am finally woman enough to say that it doesn't work for us.

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i have a bbw that is has a negative body image of herself. we have not had intercourse in years. i have been left with masturbation. then i lost my weight and now food isn't medicaticating me any longer. my cock has come back to life since i am off most my health related meds and i want sex. it is viewed negatively, if i tell her i want other ladies (morality) & i am uncertain yet if i want to go for divorce. i want the best of both worlds until i see whether the sls life is a superior lifestyle. i expect that others will think ill of me, but i would like some real answers with content to consider my paths.

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Me in my wife are in the beginning of the swinging alone process and to be honest, all that we ask of each other is honesty and to notify each other . Also if they are not willing to let the spouse play too if they want then they will get no play from either of us.

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If your wife is ok with your playing with others And Willing To Say So In Person or On The Phone, then I'd suggest you state so right up front in your profile. If you can't do this, then you're a married cheater, antithetical to everything that we believe and ppl will avoid that sort of drama.

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Not necessarily...swingers have an issue with married men cheating on their wives, not married men who play alone. There is a HUGE difference between a man like my husband who, if he and a playmate want to hook up, is okay to do so....and a man sneaking out behind his family's back getting a booty call. The only thing is, most of us just don't have the time to investigate such things...so really, its easier just to steer clear.


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There is nothing wrong with married men playing alone! Hell there have been times my wife paid my way to a gang bang, just as there has been times when she wanted to just play with the girls bi herself (excuse the pun). If you are one of those persons who has a problem with it then just steer clear. I have a problem with overweight women but I don't hate on them I just don't play with them. Its ashamed that people who call them selves open minded should get so hung up on someone's marital status.

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It has less to do with looks than it does the potential drama of the last sentence in your profile.

Most people avoid words like "permission" and "allowed to."

Good luck, G.

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I have permission to play alone just can't find any takers I cant be that ugly!

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With his wifes knowledge and consent, nothing at all.

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I think the general consensus is that most of them are liars?

Cheating hurts dude.

And I can tell you first hand about that. You see, around a decade ago I started swinging with a partner I loved very much. I had no problems with us playing as a couple and I had no problems with us playing solo so long as each knew about it. The problem was she literaly fucked everybody she could behind my back and lied about it. I had horndogs (male and female) calling the house night and day looking for her wanting to know who I was....Because she was lying to them pretending she was single, etc... Sometimes she would tell people she had my permission when we never discussed it. She was a total CHEATER.

I am pretty good with the english language and I can honestly attest that words fail me in describing how painful that was. Eventually I couldn't take it any more and split. She begged me to come back and I did, only to find out she was fucking some college kid half her age behind my back. She eventually chose him over me.

And she hasn't changed. I ran into her recently and she assured me she was on her own again, flying solo and she wanted some good sex for old times sake...So I wound up in a booty call...Only to find out later she was married to the asshole she was seeing behind my back years ago...and the Asshole found out about it and threw a fit and started a flurry of annoying text messages to me. She's still out there and shes' still cheatin'.

I am guessing thats why a lot of people don't trust married dudes who claim they have permission to play solo. Other people have bad experiences like that.

Besides, if you are a married dude and your wife has no problem with swinging, wouldn't it be easier to find couples and chicks to play with than going single?

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