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There is nothing wrong with men swinging alone as long as the wife knows and if she doesn't it's not swinging it CHEATING.

Presque Isle WI
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'What is wrong with married men swinging alone?'

Nothing, provided their wife KNOWS.

Stamford CT
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Savandwin, thanks for the idea... may just do that! anything will help I guess.

Murphy NC
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Ourfast,

A suggestion might be to include a photo of you both together holding a sign "We play separately or together" a simply fix that will assure everyone that you both have agreed you are happy with that arrangement. Since you both already have photos that somewhat identify you a sign you both are holding will avoid all doubt, issues and nasty comments about "cheating"

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Wow it is so hard as the lone guy in a open marriage! Looked at as a cheater even though I'm not. The shark at house parties...Not that either.. Just because I wear a wedding ring, I am totally happy in my marriage, keep myself fit, have a killer sexy wife in the LS who has 2 boyfriends, but we play separately too, doesn't mean I have a disease or plan to harm anyone! Damn... but I'm sure looked at as something no couple or single lady wants....

Totally frustrating....

Murphy NC
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When u go from 3x a day to 4 times a year and she does not care to explore swing options to bring back the spark is it cheating or taking care of your self. Married 26 years she has no ambition to have sex, can't convince her to change. Why should I feel guilty a still love her and have no reason to leave her because she is content with no sex. I have no inerest in the drama of taking away another guys mate either. I just want to meet good people and feel young and excited again. Met a couple who had resevations but we ended up having 3 meetings and great satisfaction was had by all.

I'm just saying!

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We don't play alone, prefering to play together, but nothing wrong with it; couples have their own rules in the LS. For us its a benefit that some couples have this flexibility, it's helpful in putting together MFM - nice to find the respectful experienced swinger husband on a hall pass.

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I am going to post from the wife's prospective. There is nothing "wrong" with married men playing alone; it is a couple's preference. In our case I can't even say that because if is MY preference. I have, on several occasions, let my husband play alone. I also discovered in doing that that I could not handle it emotionally. I swing with my husband because it is something that we can enjoy TOGETHER and share TOGETHER. I enjoy the experience with him very much. In our case, it was never meant to be an "alone" thing. I have seen too many relationships in the lifestyle fall apart because the "swinging alone," turned into a relationship. It works very well for some couples but I am finally woman enough to say that it doesn't work for us.

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i have a bbw that is has a negative body image of herself. we have not had intercourse in years. i have been left with masturbation. then i lost my weight and now food isn't medicaticating me any longer. my cock has come back to life since i am off most my health related meds and i want sex. it is viewed negatively, if i tell her i want other ladies (morality) & i am uncertain yet if i want to go for divorce. i want the best of both worlds until i see whether the sls life is a superior lifestyle. i expect that others will think ill of me, but i would like some real answers with content to consider my paths.

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Me in my wife are in the beginning of the swinging alone process and to be honest, all that we ask of each other is honesty and to notify each other . Also if they are not willing to let the spouse play too if they want then they will get no play from either of us.

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