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interesting concept.

Swingers, the gateway sex to prostitutes.

PJ

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Yeah, its just not an okay thing to do. I suppose if a man is going to cheat, this would be a venue to be very discreet. But wrong is wrong, and its actually kind of scary. If he will have sex with women he does not know, what stops him from going from swingers to say, prostitutes? Then you get into all kinds of risk categories. Thats how I think about it. Shelly

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I recently came across a swing site that had the options for married, single, divorced or separated status.

A fellow I know who is married (and his wife would kill him or worse if she knew what he was up) to has signed up as 'separated'. Which currently is somewhat truthful (geographically) but she doesn't think so.

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Lusty, I cannot agree more. We are the same way, we try to keep things as fair as possible. With me, its hard for me to get over the thought that some woman is at home with her children while I'm in a hotel room banging her husband. Thats just wrong, no matter how you look at it. I have had people tell me "its not my problem"....perhaps they are right. But I have loyalty to fellow wives, and just do not have the ability to turn a blind eye to a woman like that. Shelly

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PJay, I can relate. We are opening ourselves up to the idea of singles more and more. To keep things fair for both we are thinking about alternating between fmf's and mfm's....but couple/couple is a fantasy that we are pretty much tired of. NOT that we don't love couples mind you...its just a mirage. Right when you think you are there its like "shit, its just dust!"

LOL

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I have some friends (a couple) on this site that play together and separately. separately, for a couple of reasons:

1. it's more difficult to find another couple where all 4 parties connect sexually. 2. They have young children at home and it's easier to take turns having a nite out than it is to arrange a sitter.

They both meet the other person (or couple) and give their blessings so all parties involved know it's ok w/ the other spouse. I think there's hot times when they get home telling what happened on their evening out adventures too.

Seems to work for them...

PJ

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What I always think is if he doesnt care or respect his WIFE that much, the one he loves, how is he ever going to give a shit about me ie. with disease, things like that? Shelly

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It looks shady. There are so many questions that come to mind when people see a profile that is a couple, only to learn the guy is the only one swinging. As they said before, are you single and posing as a couple? Are you cheating? If your profile looks shifty, it leads people to run away.

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Tammy, I have done the same thing for women I know Jay would be attracted to, signed my name and all LOL..no response. Can't blame them I suppose, I would probably think the same thing. I guess once you have been burned its better to be safe than sorry. But yes, I can relate to you. Shelly

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My husband and I are in a loving commited marriage. We do play together and we do play alone. He has my full permission and I usually try to help him find nice ladies. Ideally it would be great to find a couple that all 4 click and can play together or alone but this just does not happen often. Here is my question, I the female of this couple, will email ladies for my hubby and I help him look through the profiles, and I know there are a lot of cheaters out there, but not all of us who play alone are cheatting. So ladies what do I need to say so you know I am honest and that I would love you to meet my hubby? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks, Tammy

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