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We don't know and have no idea on how to find out for sure if he's a cheater or not. If we ask to talk to the wife first and he gives us a number, how can we even tell if the woman on the phone is really his wife?

It's different if we already play with the couple before and then the woman says she's allowing her husband to swing with us alone. That or plenty of real swingers already vouched for the husband's authenticity.

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Does the OP's wife know he "Swings alone?" That usually means a cheater.

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We won't accuse any married man swinging alone as cheating but we don't play with them just to be on the safe side (there are a lot of single males available after all). Unless we meet the wife and she gives us her explicit permission, how can we tell? The last thing we want in that situation is to be a marriage breaker and get involved in the drama. God forbid we got served to testify in a divorce court about the sexual encounter. Yikes!!!

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I have the same problem. My wife and I go to a party but as soon as we get then and talk with the hosts it's off on our own. She has 5 guys chasing her around all night and I get looked upon as if I'm cheating. She goes to parties on her own and I don't object to it. When I go by myself, with wifes permission, I get the third degree. I tell people I'm not cheating, you can call or text my wife and ask. Yes granted I'd love to find a female to go to a party with as a couple and play as a couple, but that's hard to find, and even if it did happen, anyone who knows me is going to say I'm cheating. That is everyone except the people that know me and know my situation.

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How about if he'll lie to his spouse how can you trust anything else about him? I he can't make her happy. is it going to be mystically better for you? Why is he playing alone? In the 15 years I've been in the lifestyle, it boils down to the male gets too lazy to keep the fire lit for her and then looks for the shiny new model that gives it up for anyone else. Yes, there are exceptions, and if the relationship is open, have her call, draft a letter, something to okay your situation. You're stuck with a bad reputation a lot of cheating males bestowed on you by gender association. Tough situation but try just meeting someone locally, a drink a reserved date and then introduce them to the open relationship partner, just don't block the door until you have the verbal delivery polished.

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eands have it 100% right.

Married guys need to sneak around, rush home and often do not show or even txt or email to cancel.

Not worth the trouble.

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You didn't ask for a profile critique, but have you considered posting a public picture of him? Think about it, if you as the straight female were searching for a guy, wouldn't you be more inclined to respond to a profile with a photo of a man you find attractive?

Signed, A Former SM in the LS (Yeah, a brazillion years ago though.)

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Ok...just saw my husband's post on here. Our profile plainly states that we play alone or together. Several reasons for that! In the beginning both he and I "took one for the team". WHY??? That's stupid. I want him to have a great time and enjoy himself as much as I want it for myself. Plus, I'm not bi or bi-curious! Use common sense, ASK if someone is attached and if it's ok that they play. Hell, I'm not taking them home with me. I just want a great time! Don't blow things out of proportion and ruin things for people who haven't asked for it. I've seen how single guys get treated AND single women. I guarantee the women don't get questioned and given the 3rd degree! Stop treating single men and married men with permission like crap!

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I have been told that I am 41, a great looking guy, with a great body, and 8"cock too! But my open marriage has done absolutly nothing for me! Most girls on this site are only looking to eat a pussy, and the very few straight girls are couples playing only with other couples, or 1 to 1000 or more with guys! WTF! I don't have a chance! My wife has guys after her all the time. And of course they don't have a wife or gf to play as a couple, yea right! Go to clubs together and alone nothing! Cabin or house parties, nothing to disire, rarely. Don't get it and ain't gettin' it ether!? Like the guy said we single or solo guys are looked at as a problem! And a girl can do anything! Fair, hell no!!!

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Wannatry808, fully understand that, the wife finds all the guys she wants but ladies now that's a really tough one for either of us!

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