It's up to the individual. I am honest on my profile. If a woman refuses to meet me because I'm married, then so be it. However, I have had several female friends who prefer married men only because of the drama and the instability assoicated with single men. They say that all of the good men are taken and I do believe that a man in a marriage has the ability to maintain a relationship proportionately better than a man who is either divorced or never been married. This might offend some and I do know there are many exceptions. The author of this topic really should be totally honest on his profile. He may lose a few but in the long run, he may very well gain some good and long lasting friendships with really quality women friends.

The hard part is making absolutely sure that a wife or husband really IS the wife or husband, and that they really are okay with things. I think if we KNEW the couple from previous play, and then branched off that is okay. I just don't want an angry spouse calling me.
Shells

We have no problem with married men playing alone or women as far as that goes. She has a male friend that is married that she plays with and I have some couples I play with. We are currently seeking another male for her that will play in MFM or with her alone after gaining our trust. The first wasnt a problem as he was already a friend of ours when they decided to try playing. But now seeking a new playmate she listed what she was looking for and all the replies we have gotten have been everything but what she asked for. She did state that married is ok. We have gotten emails from couples profiles that say they are married and wife has just had a child or surgury wife has been sick when we say we would like to meet her in order to prove that they haev permission. She asked that they supply a face picture if they were interested... we have had soo many emails with so many reasons that they cant supply pictures. If there is a handsom male .. married or not out there that fits her discription ... age range.. supply picture without us having to go register on some other website, and if married be prepaired to prove you have permission please contact us.

welcom to the forums, btw!!

you cheat when u do it with another person regardless of permission?

that ain't my definition of cheating...

and im very maral

Atlanta,
quit teasing me with all your sexy talk lol.
Shelly

LOL.. no doubt about that WildMainePussy!

PJ

Hahaha...which is cheaper? A meeting dinner at Bennigan's - then the followup bite at Olive Garden and then to the nearest LaQuinta? Mind you this is a 87 mile ride one way x 4.

Maybe the streetwalker is cheaper and less time consuming.

interesting concept.

Swingers, the gateway sex to prostitutes.

PJ

Yeah, its just not an okay thing to do. I suppose if a man is going to cheat, this would be a venue to be very discreet. But wrong is wrong, and its actually kind of scary. If he will have sex with women he does not know, what stops him from going from swingers to say, prostitutes? Then you get into all kinds of risk categories.
Thats how I think about it.
Shelly