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TOPIC: What is wrong with Married men swinging alone
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We've always viewed Trust as a Very large component of swinging. If a married man is swinging with his wife's knowledge, then there's no violation of trust. If she doesn't know, then that's a Big violation of trust. We could never play with someone that we couldn't trust to be truthful about so many things (STD's and legal issues being foremost). If she's on board and willing to meet and say so, then there's no issue.

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Married and swinging alone without partner knowledge is wrong.

There are stories and it's easy to imagine a couple that swings getting dragged in court for a divorce hearing... all because they invited a married person that was hiding it. With people being so damn greedy now a days don't delude yourself one minute that a cheated on spouse would not bring your swinging partners into the divorce hearing to help sway the judge. This would increase their settlement. Ask any lawyer.

Male or female it's wrong to swing without your partner knowing. It's cheating. However that bad thing is that so many people lie so well it's hard to catch a cheater if you are only doing one night stands.

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only if you're telling me what to do...

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Was going to say, "we haff vays of making you talk..."

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The rest of you looks pretty great too, Pants, but something about that wicked "almost grin" that shows you have a secret, or something devious.

But yeah, there are things...

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Too bad ignorance isn't on the list of deadly sins...A sin is something that intentionally hurts someone else. Anything or nothing can be a sin.

Pants, when I saw that photo (good looking, btw!), all I could think of was this line: "Boy, you sure do have a purty mouth!"

I would consider aspects of swinging to be privileges rather than rights, but no one has the "right" to condemn others for their choices, in swinging or elsewhere. And why is it that no one has brought up married women who play alone? I know the numbers are less, but still.

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It seems like most married guys that we have chatted with "who had permission from their wives to swing" were liars. On several occasions, we have asked to speak to the wife and she is never available. We even had one guy (after being turned down several times by us) tell us his wife had just passed away ( a few days earlier)...but she would have approved us playing with him. What a load of crap that was.

We know what people are saying. But there is really no such thing as "rights" in swinging. It is like smoking. When they tell people not to smoke, they are not taking away any rights.

We will now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

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yes i agree bout its ur rite to swing if u r married, single, or whtever u may b...like i said earlier tht i think its alrite to do it...it brings life back into ur marriage...married man can b the most romantic and erotic lover u can have...i dont have any prob with this subject...

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its cheating, and also how can a married guy have sucess in sls"

It is cheating if the person is sneaking behind the back of his/her spouse. However there are married people out here who do this with the knowledge and permission of their spouse. I know one of them who is a good friend of ours; we have talked to the wife so we know he has permission. We have another good friend whos wife travels on business pretty frequently and he has her blessing to play while she is gone so long as she knows the lady.


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im sorry i dont agree with u...if a married person, dont matter if its a f or a m, is on ANY of these site...they r on here for 2 reasons...to find a friendship with person and to find wht they cant get at home...tht is sex...dont foget tht sex is not the NO. 1 thing in a marriage...and if married person cums up to u and wants to talk or whtever then its up to u to mention to them tht u r married...so i still dont agree with ur comment bout this...sum makes incredibe SPEC FRIENDS...also when u r married and a swinger...u can bring life back into ur marriage or give it a lit spice...

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