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User Details are only visible to members.	If your profile is as a couple then that is what most couples look for. Single men do have a hard time in general meeting couples and SF. But if your a guy that has permission, to most it doesn't mean a hill of beans. You are new to this site and I also noticed that your profile does not mention the fact that you're SM friendly. If you don't invite SMs to your profile what makes you think other will. Anyone who is SM friendly doesn't want the male that has permission to play because of the potential of drama. it's got nothing to do with being ugly it's just the comfort level others have.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9705 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have permission to play alone just can't find any takers I cant be that ugly!
Murrells Inlet SC			Username hidden (22 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The other side of this is the married woman who just wants some discrete fun
York PA			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	With his wifes knowledge and consent, nothing at all.
Merced CA			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think the general consensus is that most of them are liars? Cheating hurts dude. And I can tell you first hand about that. You see, around a decade ago I started swinging with a partner I loved very much. I had no problems with us playing as a couple and I had no problems with us playing solo so long as each knew about it. The problem was she literaly fucked everybody she could behind my back and lied about it. I had horndogs (male and female) calling the house night and day looking for her wanting to know who I was....Because she was lying to them pretending she was single, etc... Sometimes she would tell people she had my permission when we never discussed it. She was a total CHEATER. I am pretty good with the english language and I can honestly attest that words fail me in describing how painful that was. Eventually I couldn't take it any more and split. She begged me to come back and I did, only to find out she was fucking some college kid half her age behind my back. She eventually chose him over me. And she hasn't changed. I ran into her recently and she assured me she was on her own again, flying solo and she wanted some good sex for old times sake...So I wound up in a booty call...Only to find out later she was married to the asshole she was seeing behind my back years ago...and the Asshole found out about it and threw a fit and started a flurry of annoying text messages to me. She's still out there and shes' still cheatin'. I am guessing thats why a lot of people don't trust married dudes who claim they have permission to play solo. Other people have bad experiences like that. Besides, if you are a married dude and your wife has no problem with swinging, wouldn't it be easier to find couples and chicks to play with than going single?
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've always viewed Trust as a Very large component of swinging. If a married man is swinging with his wife's knowledge, then there's no violation of trust. If she doesn't know, then that's a Big violation of trust. We could never play with someone that we couldn't trust to be truthful about so many things (STD's and legal issues being foremost). If she's on board and willing to meet and say so, then there's no issue. JnD
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (634 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Married and swinging alone without partner knowledge is wrong. There are stories and it's easy to imagine a couple that swings getting dragged in court for a divorce hearing... all because they invited a married person that was hiding it. With people being so damn greedy now a days don't delude yourself one minute that a cheated on spouse would not bring your swinging partners into the divorce hearing to help sway the judge. This would increase their settlement. Ask any lawyer. Male or female it's wrong to swing without your partner knowing. It's cheating. However that bad thing is that so many people lie so well it's hard to catch a cheater if you are only doing one night stands.
Charles City VA			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	only if you're telling me what to do...
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Was going to say, "we haff vays of making you talk..."
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The rest of you looks pretty great too, Pants, but something about that wicked "almost grin" that shows you have a secret, or something devious. But yeah, there are things... G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

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