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TOPIC: What is wrong with Married men swinging alone
Created by: readytoplay6969
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What is wrong with married men swinging alone? Why do women not give us a chance? I am a truly nice guy! Good looking! Fun! What is wrong?

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She is definitely an Angel! Thanks for sharing. :)

Lexington KY
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LOL thanks for your viewing pleasure I opened up our pics for you and we are suppose to make some new ones tonight. this is her husband by the way. thanks for the nice comments.

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I don't know if it is the Mr or Mrs Angelmica posting. All I want to say is she is one smoking hot little lady and could pick me up anytime. Actually she would fit quite nicely over a shoulder on the way back to my cave :)

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I would have to say that his situation is his business as long as he don't bring drama our way. But if his wife found out and caused us any embarrassment I it would be a huge problem. lately we been only meeting at LS club parties and house parties. I think making them meet you there weeds out most of the jerk offs.

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Robin doesn't have ongoing relationships with single men. When we were new, we got to a point where there were a few single men who had her number and were calling all the time. I put an end to that, and it won't happen again. We only have friend relationships, or even just occasional repeat swinger relationships, with couples.

That being the case for us, we don't give a damn if a guy she meets in a club is single, married with permission, or married and cheating. We don't ask and don't care because he's nothing but a one night stunt cock to us. That's probably a terrible attitude to have, but that's as far as it will ever go with single(or whatever) man.

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We don't know and have no idea on how to find out for sure if he's a cheater or not. If we ask to talk to the wife first and he gives us a number, how can we even tell if the woman on the phone is really his wife?

It's different if we already play with the couple before and then the woman says she's allowing her husband to swing with us alone. That or plenty of real swingers already vouched for the husband's authenticity.

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Does the OP's wife know he "Swings alone?" That usually means a cheater.

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We won't accuse any married man swinging alone as cheating but we don't play with them just to be on the safe side (there are a lot of single males available after all). Unless we meet the wife and she gives us her explicit permission, how can we tell? The last thing we want in that situation is to be a marriage breaker and get involved in the drama. God forbid we got served to testify in a divorce court about the sexual encounter. Yikes!!!

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I have the same problem. My wife and I go to a party but as soon as we get then and talk with the hosts it's off on our own. She has 5 guys chasing her around all night and I get looked upon as if I'm cheating. She goes to parties on her own and I don't object to it. When I go by myself, with wifes permission, I get the third degree. I tell people I'm not cheating, you can call or text my wife and ask. Yes granted I'd love to find a female to go to a party with as a couple and play as a couple, but that's hard to find, and even if it did happen, anyone who knows me is going to say I'm cheating. That is everyone except the people that know me and know my situation.

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How about if he'll lie to his spouse how can you trust anything else about him? I he can't make her happy. is it going to be mystically better for you? Why is he playing alone? In the 15 years I've been in the lifestyle, it boils down to the male gets too lazy to keep the fire lit for her and then looks for the shiny new model that gives it up for anyone else. Yes, there are exceptions, and if the relationship is open, have her call, draft a letter, something to okay your situation. You're stuck with a bad reputation a lot of cheating males bestowed on you by gender association. Tough situation but try just meeting someone locally, a drink a reserved date and then introduce them to the open relationship partner, just don't block the door until you have the verbal delivery polished.

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